Gavy, I agree, the show is totally campy. It is based on a series of novels written by a women so even though there is meaningless sex there is a romantic element that all woman love, it's very clever to appeal so well to both genders.
I think the brother is vile and see nothing attractive in him, he has absolutely zero sex appeal. Maybe he's too young for me but I think Ryan Gosling is sexy and they are about the same age. I think he is a good actor especially since he is Austrian, he is not supposed to be likable, we are supposed to be a little disgusted with him. Tara irrationally loves him because he saved her when they were young and a woman never forget a heroic act. Tara envies Sookie and Sam loves Sookie so it's a way to get something Sookie has.
I think killing off a main and loved charater is genius, it freaked us out. If poor little sweet granny is disposable then who else can go. I think granny was in the way of Sookie and Bill going to the next level, she grounded Sookie and now she is gone anything goes.