While I think that both sides have their points, I would just like to point out a few random thoughts I have:
1) How many escorts have provided copies of their driver's licenses to clients ?
2) Has any provider ever shared personal info from clients when there was no "a very bad situation has happened" situation ?
3) Has anyone's personal info ever been made public on a public forum ? And has it been used to threaten anyone ?
4) Are provider's birth names, Social Security numbers, driver's license numbers, etc. being posted anywhere ( JAG, private boards, etc ). ????
5) Is the information being given "just enough" to dertimine a "match" or are things which should be confidential being widely deseminated ? ( Example: John D****sh, SS # " 12*-**-8**9, NYS driver's license number 420*****-9****-9****9, telephone (914) 64*-1**3. This would abe all someone needed if they were looking to match a "bad client" of someone else's to a new potentail client. As a result, none of this info needs to be fully spelled out in order to "protect" anyone from a bad session. If more than that is being shared, you'd have to wonder why ).
Some things I would like to admonish those who share too much confidential info with others:
a) If you pretend you are keeping info confidential and don't, people tend to get into a bit of an uproar and rect rather harshly,
b) If you disclose that you have no intention of keeping info confidential, you have to worry about the info you get being fake, and
c) When confidential info starts to become public, it becomes very difficult for the situations where you actually need it to collect it. You end up not getting the very info you need for your safety. You also set up a system where it is actually worth while for people to go out and get fake ID's ( something which is quite easy, actully, but it doesn't get done because there is no reason to do so. Once there becomes a reason to do it, it will become very common ).