Rooster,
You've got the wrong Candie, this is Candide, not candie-gurl.
Candie,
I do not distrust nor do I dislike you. I don't really know you all that well. All I know is that you are an ex-provider that went through some very unfortuante times and retired. I do not know any details. I DO recall reading some of your postings that were very well though out and real.
You often have very much to add to the conversation. But sometimes it seems when you post you are angry at someone or something. You sometimes seem to "speak" before you think, that's all. Meanwhile you accuse most, if not all, of us guys as unfeeling, coldhearted pricks, which I feel I can truthfully say is not NEARLY the case. EVEN the Jagsters, if you take into consideration that when they know they're talking amongst themselves they say one thing and when "others" are present they will conduct themselves differently, JUST LIKE FEMALES.
You show great compassion for Janelle, and I, for one, hope you can help her. I know I cannot.
Best of luck in that effort.