On the one hand, titillation is the name of the game when advertising sexual services. It's a competitive market and cutting through the clutter isn't easy, especially when selling something as volatile as a fantasy. On the other, if an ad over promises services, disappointment is almost always assured.
But there are only seldom cases in which it's so cut and dried.
As has been mentioned on another thread, providers may engage in certain activities with certain clients only. So they're reluctant to advertise these services, so as not to give the impression that every session is all inclusive. However, since reviews are, ultimately, part of the marketing mix, it's easy for prospective clients to get the wrong idea.
Add to that each individual's expectations, vs. the limitations of each individual provider, and you have a potentially volatile mix. (It's amazing anyone has a good time in this business!)
BDSM providers tend to list out their services in their ads or on their sites. If it's not on the list, chances are she doesn't offer it. Some escorts do this in their ads, but I've noticed that some posters on this board are turned off by these practices, worried that there are a lot of unstated rules that will follow once they're in the bedroom. And there are all sorts of legal implications of being too explicit.
How can we make this basic communication easier and more satisfying for everyone? Or can we?
But there are only seldom cases in which it's so cut and dried.
As has been mentioned on another thread, providers may engage in certain activities with certain clients only. So they're reluctant to advertise these services, so as not to give the impression that every session is all inclusive. However, since reviews are, ultimately, part of the marketing mix, it's easy for prospective clients to get the wrong idea.
Add to that each individual's expectations, vs. the limitations of each individual provider, and you have a potentially volatile mix. (It's amazing anyone has a good time in this business!)
BDSM providers tend to list out their services in their ads or on their sites. If it's not on the list, chances are she doesn't offer it. Some escorts do this in their ads, but I've noticed that some posters on this board are turned off by these practices, worried that there are a lot of unstated rules that will follow once they're in the bedroom. And there are all sorts of legal implications of being too explicit.
How can we make this basic communication easier and more satisfying for everyone? Or can we?