before the internet was so widely understood, at least to the point of having a Craigs list as a viable place to hunt, if one had balls, and wanted to land something close, I once posted an ad in a local free giveaway paper.....like a pennysaver, all have personal sections in theback, now mostly accessible through internet, but back then, you called and used a phone code...
if you want a real non pro, perhaps an unhappy sexually unsatisfied 32 y/o soccer mom, put an ad in one....
Make it simple......MM lonely during daytime. Seeking similar in MF or SF. Race unimportant. Discretion guaranteed....hey its like 25 bucks a month, and if you get one or two responses, youll find what you want.(now its easier, with cells and every female has her own ***** addy.)
Trolling aol chatrooms can take 1000s of hours.
