Men will cheat, they will lie, they will steal on their women. But it's the rare case when a man abondons a woman in some dire hour of need. And if it does happen, even his own friends will tell him it's not the right thing to do. But women will always abandon a guy when he's down, and the reason is always the same: "I have my own needs and I have to look after myself". When a guy is down, his friends support him, and any woman kicks him in the stomach and acts like she's got her own problems. And then they wonder why they get dogged by guys, and guys seem not to care when bad things happen to them.