True Safety?
I have a technique that I have been refining over the years to insure my safety when visiting with a lady for the first time. Firstly, on a first visit, I never opt for anything more than a nude massage. I am not certain if this is considered a sex act by LE. But seems safer than just coming out with a request for CBJ. Secondly, I never ask for 'extras' until the provider has aready 'crossed the line' with touching. I believe that LE would be unable to cross that line. Money is never discussed, I simply say that I know how tipping works (which is pretty standard in NJ). If that isnt enough, then I digress and avoid that provider in the future.
Perhaps I have been lucky, any ideas or insight into keeping safe would be very appreciated. Especially if you have had experience with LE.
This still doesnt help if you get caught with your pants down, like the guy in the article. I like to keep a towel handy to cover up (behind my head as a pillow usually works) and the door to the room MUST lock from the inside or I request another room. At least that gives you some hope if you have a second or 2.
I am thinking of swithing my habits to outcall until I this blows over, but I really like the table showers 8(