ISO Something different, something more satisfying

#1
Soon after I got into this hobby I found that I liked women who provided the GFE type date. I love the extended type dates. The getting to know you type talks before doing anything else. I'm not the type of guy who could meet some woman and within a couple of minutes be comfortable enough with her to be intimate.

Lately though this type of date has not been satisfying. Maybe it's because I'm becoming jaded or used to the GFE. I'm looking for something more, maybe one of you guys knows of a woman who can provide me with the type of experience I seek. Maybe one of you ladies can give me what I desire.

What I'm looking for is a combination of three different type dates. The first is the GFE, I'm sure everyone knows what this is. My definition includes, affection, passion, the softness and sweetness, mutual pleasing and kissing. Some activities to be done uncovered and to completion. I have no problem with returning such favors.

The next is a PSE or Porn Star Experience. My definition of PSE is that the woman does not necessarily have to have been in porn movies, but she must be absolutely confident of her sexuality. In other words she knows she's hot and wants to prove to you just how hot she is. She must be totally uninhibited and have a desire and appetite for sex on level with that of a man. She must be vocal, being able to tell me what she likes, and have the ability to talk dirty.

The last third is a HME or HoneyMoon Experience. This could actually be a role for her to play. The role of a insatiable girlfriend who has returned from a long celibate trip and will not take no nor stop until she is satisfied, even if that means hours. Except for requests that extended to activities outside her boundaries the word "NO" is not in her vocabulary.

So guys anybody know of a provider who can give me this type of experience? I'm not looking for this to happen in a hour or two type date. I have no problem with it being an overnighter.

Ladies, any of you think you could play this role for me? I've been called a gentleman, a sweetheart and gallant by other providers I've seen. I can and will provide you with a very, very nice BFE. I'm a great cook to boot, just tell me what you like and that will be your meal. Please contact me if you think you could play this role to the extreme. If you succeed you will have gained a exclusive regular for overnight or longer type dates. I'm talking weekends at my waterfront home at the NJ shore.

Your responses can be either here or if you wish discretion, please feel free to email me.
 

fletch

Voice of Reason
#3
Phantom, please don't take offense because I mean this sincerely: you're not looking for a GFE - you're looking for a GF. And you're looking in the wrong place.
 
#4
I had that once

I spent a year of my life seeing a provider once a week who was all that and more. Near the end she met a guy, got married, and quit the business. But we had incredible hot wild sex, emotional intimacy, and friendship right till the end.

One like that doesn't come along every day. You can't hope to find her through a message board -- "so and so provides gfe, pse, friendship, love, kink, beauty, brains, etc. etc. on demand and here is her number."

You just do your thing, live your life, answer some ads, drop in to clubs, whatever you do, and one day maybe you'll find one like that. Or not.

I'm a lucky guy to have spent a year like that. Wherever she is right now, I wish her all the best. I'm a better man for being with her.

Unfortunately that experience has made me very intolerant of what passes for commercial sex in NY and elsewhere. I've seen a woman reviewed as a "GFE" who provided me with an impersonal backrub and half-hearted blowjob on a tiny massage table.

No matter. Experiences such as you describe are out there, but they don't show up every day.

fishfry999@hotmail.com
 
#5
I'm with Fletch. If there's a fee involved (and for an overnighter, the fee will be noticeable!), you'll get an approximation of what you're really questing for. Perhaps your current state of dissatisfaction is a result of your seeing through the current batch of false promises. For a true GFE, get a GF. It's simple.
 
#6
Well guys I've already received a response privately from a drop dead gorgeous babe in the NYC/NJ/CT area who tells me that she would have NO problem providing me with the experience I desire. I've asked a few friends about her and have been told that she is a totally smokin' babe. She sent me a picture and if she is half as good looking as she is in the picture it ought to be a rock my world type experience.

[Edited by Phantom on 02-26-2001 at 05:31 AM]
 
#7
WARNING WILL ROGERS

Phantom:

Insert the concept of drugs or booze into your first post. Looking forward to topping each encounter, seeking the ultimate...etc.

You're in deep trouble my friend.
 

justme

homo economicus
#12
Fairly big ditto to fletch, with the observation that Phantom wants not only a gf, but a fairly sexual gf as well. He probably also wants one that is really, really good looking (at least to his standard). It seems like to date he's been willing to shell out money and sacrafice a bit of the genuine emotion that a non comercial relationship might bring in order to gaurantee those two things. Perhaps if the sacrafice came at the other end he might be happier in the long run. Not that I'm advocating anything.
 
#13
Whats the true cost of wife vs gfe vs hooker sex?

According to my slide rule, wife & gfe is the most expensive.

Personally, I guess $300-$500 an hour is about 20% of what the average wifey gets, if you figure in the cost of houses, cars, jewellry etc....

So, I guess Julies is a wild bargain....
 
#18
I am not contributing here to get silver. I am pretty much resigned to be, forever bronze. Nonetheless, I believe that Phantom can get what he wants. I almost had it, and still may rebound to get it yet. There is clearly a difference between GFE and GF, but I retain enough romanticism to believe that the former can become the latter.
 
#20
I would just like to say "THANK YOU" to a great friend who put me in touch with a great woman who I'm pretty sure will show me the time of my life. She read my original post and told me she had "NO" problem with any of it. Wound up talking to her for over 3 three hours the other night.

To my friend, "THANK YOU" and if you ever need a recommendation or someone to vouch for you, please do not hesitate to ask.
 
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