So, I got let go from my job a few months ago. Welcome to the club!! I've been working with Temp. Agencies since, while I'm looking for full time employment, and with the work I get, and the Unemployment on the days I don't work, have no problem sustaining myself financially. I'm single, and have few bills, so I still make a decent living weekly, and have money to splurge. I tried getting verified on Pref411, and DateCheck, and was declined by both. I'm a newbie, and haven't been with a provider yet, so I have no reference to verify me as far as screening. I work in different hospital, or nursing home locations on a daily basis, so giving a call back number is not an option. I received a phone call from an assistant at one of the screening services, and they recommended a long process that entails releasing, and scanning personal information. I don't know if I'm comfortable giving this sort of information. If any of you' have read my previous posts, you'll know that I've been kinda on-the-fence for a while about doing this, but I've finally got my nerve up, and decided to get my feet wet, and make the leap into doing this. This kind of set-back has really put a wedge into things, and my inspiration, as well as my nerve, is feeling kind of deflated right now. I was ready, willing, and able, and VERY excited (and HORNY!!) to give this a go a a couple of days ago, but my pride, desire, and my LIBIDO feel like they've suffered yet again another let-down. HELL, I haven't masturbated in two whole days, and I even retired my Fleshlight in anticipation of having a "date" with a beautiful provider!! I'm REARING to go!! So, I'm in quite of a quandary right now. I can understand the need for screening, and discretion in this type of business, and I DO feel it's necessary, but dammit, I'm horny, and lonely!! I never thought that it would be this difficult. So, maybe I'm venting. I think I deserve to. I'm also, once again, looking to all you experienced "gentlemen" for advice. What do you suggest. Do I really have no other alternative to wait 'till I'm verified? I'm very frustrated right now (emotionally, and SEXUALLY!!). I could spend a few bucks on a cam girl tonight, and get my rocks off that way, but I'd really prefer to see a beautiful lady IRL. ANY suggestions whatsoever would be GREATLY appreciated!