I've recently started going to a swingers party that allows single men. Found it on Fetlife.
There are usually some single girls, some couples and a lot of single guys. The guy to girl ratio varies. Sometimes it's overwhelming, and sometimes it's pretty good.
I really enjoy the social aspect of the party. I like hanging out with other, like minded, people, and I like the idea of fucking too. But, I find that I have a hard time getting it up, or keeping it up in that environment. I am not bothered (that I know of) by the proximity of the other dicks, and I don't think it's a problem with people watching. I guess I am more of a one on one kind of guy. Or maybe I am just getting caught up in my own head.
I suppose I could just go and hang out and not try to participate, but I hate the idea of turning down any women that are interested in playing.
So, anyone have any advice other than trying to get a scrip for viagra? When alone with a girl, while I am not the fastest guy to get a hard on, I don't really have a problem there, so I am sure it's psychological and not physiological.
There are usually some single girls, some couples and a lot of single guys. The guy to girl ratio varies. Sometimes it's overwhelming, and sometimes it's pretty good.
I really enjoy the social aspect of the party. I like hanging out with other, like minded, people, and I like the idea of fucking too. But, I find that I have a hard time getting it up, or keeping it up in that environment. I am not bothered (that I know of) by the proximity of the other dicks, and I don't think it's a problem with people watching. I guess I am more of a one on one kind of guy. Or maybe I am just getting caught up in my own head.
I suppose I could just go and hang out and not try to participate, but I hate the idea of turning down any women that are interested in playing.
So, anyone have any advice other than trying to get a scrip for viagra? When alone with a girl, while I am not the fastest guy to get a hard on, I don't really have a problem there, so I am sure it's psychological and not physiological.