Hey Big "B", I agree that this is a terrific poll. imameathead, if you are happily married and have great sex, why sacrifice that? I have to believe that most of us guys know longer get it at home and this is why we look elsewhere to satisfy our needs. I dig variety, but if you already have great sex and you have that connection. My friend had your same situation, he likes variety until his wife found out and now he has no money to meet his needs. She got it all!!!