Denied DATY because of facial hair

#1
I wonder if this has ever happened to any of you fine gentlemen?

A few times recently I've been denied daty by Asian woman and the reason they give me is because of my beard.

They let me start but then over dramatically push my head away and say the beard is too itchy.

I have a WOC SB and go down on her twice a week with no problem.

In fact I've never had a problem with any other race except recently Asians.

Could it be their skin is more sensitive between their legs?
 
#2
I wonder if this has ever happened to any of you fine gentlemen?

A few times recently I've been denied daty by Asian woman and the reason they give me is because of my beard.

They let me start but then over dramatically push my head away and say the beard is too itchy.

I have a WOC SB and go down on her twice a week with no problem.

In fact I've never had a problem with any other race except recently Asians.

Could it be their skin is more sensitive between their legs?

Depends on how tough your beard is. Some of us have face and groin hair like porcupine bristle, or like some grades of a wire brush. Unless close-shaven, that irritates their skin.
I generally need a wet shave with a fresh razor when coming in close contact with their face, lips snd nether region. Sometimes an electric razor doesn’t get close enough and there is stubble. It is sometimes referred to as a “Roman Beard.”

Another dreadful pain I inflicted upon a woman recently is grinding her out after I recently shaved in and around the pubic area of the boys. The stubble came back a few days later, and the poor girl definitely showed displeasure. I realized I could give my nether region a good trimming without cropping it down to an abrasive stubble. No girl deserves being exposed to sharp needles stabbing her sensual soft surfaces.
 
#3
Mugi is spot on
Facial hair is unlike body or scalp hair it's very close to pubic hair.
Beard oil 2x daily after shower/breakfast and after dinner.
Using a proper beard shampoo and conditioner helps a ton. I am on a 3 day cycle shampoo day 1, conditioner on day 2 and nothing on day 3. Infrequently I apply small amount of conditioner w/o rinse after..
Barbers, family and providers have commented on softness of my beard.
 
#7
This is one of the excuses the wife makes. Other civilians don't seem to care.
My best friend deals with the same shit. He’s the sole provider in the house. She’s 6 years older than him. Fucking laundry list of reasons she gives him not to put out.

Oh you smoke, I hate the smell
Your beard is itchy
Etc.

He complains about not getting laid but I told him to call her bluff… quit cigs and shave. When she doesn’t put out, hand her divorce papers.
 
#10
I picked up a young (maybe low 20's) lady once at around 10pm and brought her back to my hotel room.

I hadn't shaved since 7am that morning.

After a few minutes of DATY she started wiggling around that I mistakenly though was due to my superior tongue skills. A couple of minutes more and she pushed my head away and there was blood on the sheets. It was not from her period but from the skin on her inner thighs that my stubble had rubbed raw.

She said my face was like sandpaper.

If she had told me earlier, before it got that far, I would have done a quick shave.
 
#12
My best friend deals with the same shit. He’s the sole provider in the house. She’s 6 years older than him. Fucking laundry list of reasons she gives him not to put out.

Oh you smoke, I hate the smell
Your beard is itchy
Etc.

He complains about not getting laid but I told him to call her bluff… quit cigs and shave. When she doesn’t put out, hand her divorce papers.
He ain’t getting laid. Next in the queue are:

1) breath is bad
2) body odor
3) overweight
4) perspiring
5) et cetera…
 
#13
He ain’t getting laid. Next in the queue are:

1) breath is bad
2) body odor
3) overweight
4) perspiring
5) et cetera…
Most of those apply to him. He’s a fake alpha… plays a tough guy but is helpless in reality.
Let’s be honest the last thing a wife wants is a slob of a husband plopping down in her giving her the best 3-1/2” of her life lol

at least groom, shower and do some fucking pushups and eat alittle clean…
 
#14
Most of those apply to him. He’s a fake alpha… plays a tough guy but is helpless in reality.
Let’s be honest the last thing a wife wants is a slob of a husband plopping down in her giving her the best 3-1/2” of her life lol

at least groom, shower and do some fucking pushups and eat alittle clean…
What I meant to imply is that when a woman is done with you, sexually, for whatever reason, she will find some excuse to blame it on whenever you make your move on her.

When we are out of our prime, nobody is perfect and as appealing as we once were. Of course, we maintain ourselves as best as possible, by exercise, proper grooming, cleanliness, proper diet and good manners.

Many other women might still find you highly appealing. But, when a woman has turned the page on you for a far deeper reason, she will nitpick and blame myriad even minor imperfections in your appearance.

Her reason for denying you is usually some unresolved emotional issue in the relationship that she can’t/wont express. Hence, it is far easier to blame some physical attribute that is not considered the highest standard for male appearance since facing the deeper issue requires an upheaval of hurtful emotions that she is unwilling to experience.
 
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