It was my first strip club experience and found it very nice. no extras and the ld areas have some surveillance according to the first dancer i saw. I hope not tape, just cam. The lap dance was very nice and the grind simulates a vigorous screw really, so i was surprised not really knowing before this what exactly the lapdance is and what all the hoopla is . now i know.
I was wondering if guys give tips or just the 20 that i pay the dude who sends me in with the girl. Since there's no extras, all legal and everything. does the girl get enough pay to make it worth her while? Or was i incredibly cheap? any guidance is appreciated.
while there are differences of opinion on the subject, i usually don't tip unless something extra happens. whether it be kissing, stick shifting...whatever. a good rule of thumb is how much you enjoyed yourself. consider it an investment in the future, if you want your next dance with this dancer to be good, i would suggest tipping...but not too much. if there were no extras provided, i wouldn't give more than a $5.
now if you are asked or otherwise hassled for a tip, i say fuck 'em...give them nothing. she is violating the rules of the "illusion" which in my opinion, sours the experience. a sure way of making sure you get a small to no tip from me is to pressure me. i hate that shit and try not to reward it.
in many low end rooms, you may encounter dancers asking for a tip up front...just after you've payed already. in this case, you are put in an awkward position, because if you don't tip you are assured a terrible dance; but on the other hand, you may tip and get a crappy dance anyway. at these times, i will say that i will tip AFTER...if the dance is good and then give a minimal amount (much less than i'd usually give). other times, i've stood up and demanded my money back before the dance starts. i don't appreciate being put in that position. ironically, it's ALWAYS the most disgusting, oldest pieces of crap who do this. i guess the better looking girls don't need to resort to these pathetic tactics.