Hey Irv,
You are right, things appear different on the internet in comparison then saying it in the flesh, same with texts and emails. What may seem like complaining appears different to those who know the person and could visualize them making the statement. It's hard to see the tone on a anonymous message board sometimes even with all the icons, lots of misunderstandings.
There should be protocol between providers and their peers but often there is not. I just to follow basic rules on being a person - don't fuck people over, be considerate, be humble, don't get greedy, put yourself in others shoes, ect. I have been screwed over more than once by my peers and when they do it they go for the jugular. I noticed you can tell alot about the way a provider is going to treat her peers by the way she treats her clients. Those who care about their work ethic and repuation are the ones that get along with their peers, offer help, advice and those who rush and hustle their clients usually have less regard for their peers, it's all about power and the green for them. I could forgive more easily a woman who fucked me over because she was on drugs before a woman who has conscience intent.
I'm sorry to hear of your new relationship status, I hope you are okay.
You are right, things appear different on the internet in comparison then saying it in the flesh, same with texts and emails. What may seem like complaining appears different to those who know the person and could visualize them making the statement. It's hard to see the tone on a anonymous message board sometimes even with all the icons, lots of misunderstandings.
There should be protocol between providers and their peers but often there is not. I just to follow basic rules on being a person - don't fuck people over, be considerate, be humble, don't get greedy, put yourself in others shoes, ect. I have been screwed over more than once by my peers and when they do it they go for the jugular. I noticed you can tell alot about the way a provider is going to treat her peers by the way she treats her clients. Those who care about their work ethic and repuation are the ones that get along with their peers, offer help, advice and those who rush and hustle their clients usually have less regard for their peers, it's all about power and the green for them. I could forgive more easily a woman who fucked me over because she was on drugs before a woman who has conscience intent.
I'm sorry to hear of your new relationship status, I hope you are okay.