Avoiding Dinner Whores
- Thread starter plat122
- Start date
Exactly.. who?? the most lonliest of man kind on this earth who are just begging for company??? I dont know of any guys who just want to drop money on taking a chick out for a one time night with no sex... you take friends out like that... like
Hey Joe.. whats ya up to, want to grab a bite to eat"
Joe: man, I am broke..
Me: Dont sweat it Joe.. I got your back, its on me ..
FAH
Hey Joe.. whats ya up to, want to grab a bite to eat"
Joe: man, I am broke..
Me: Dont sweat it Joe.. I got your back, its on me ..
FAH
Last edited:
You know, most men are not so ethically challenged.
I participated in a debate elsewhere where the topic of discussion was the male version of precisely this bit of business.
The men involved came down just as hard on the man who put forth it was OK to led a woman on in a "potential" sugar baby relationship for his own benefit as the men here are coming down on you.
You aren't participating in some altruistic endeavor to let a fellow potentially access your heart or your panties. You are dangling a carrot on a stick you know the donkey is never going to reach to get the burrow to cross the dining room and sign off on a free meal.
File it under: "You can fool some of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time." and I would add, "And its not a good idea to fool yourself any of the time.", and be done with it. You are truly making yourself look a bit foolish.
[said with only the idea that you grow up a little your age, or lack of it, is showing.]
wishing well...
I participated in a debate elsewhere where the topic of discussion was the male version of precisely this bit of business.
The men involved came down just as hard on the man who put forth it was OK to led a woman on in a "potential" sugar baby relationship for his own benefit as the men here are coming down on you.
You aren't participating in some altruistic endeavor to let a fellow potentially access your heart or your panties. You are dangling a carrot on a stick you know the donkey is never going to reach to get the burrow to cross the dining room and sign off on a free meal.
File it under: "You can fool some of the people some of the time, but not all of the people all of the time." and I would add, "And its not a good idea to fool yourself any of the time.", and be done with it. You are truly making yourself look a bit foolish.
[said with only the idea that you grow up a little your age, or lack of it, is showing.]
wishing well...
Last edited:
You are absolutely right. Because a "whore" usually exchanges something of value for something of value. There is quid pro quo.
What you are say you were involved in, and is practiced by others and called "dinner whores" by some is more akin to a flim-flam.
It is the emotional equivalent of the old "lottery ticket" scam.
You hold out the "winning lottery ticket" in the form of potential access to your affections or your person as the "winnings", the mark pays off by paying for an expensive dinner [dinner whores only want the best] and when the sucker goes looking to cash in finds what he is holding to be worthless.
Classic bunko.
But I know you know that all your rhetoric is you simply amusing yourself. You damn well know right from wrong. You're just jerking off the tourists for kicks.
Come on... fess up.
What you are say you were involved in, and is practiced by others and called "dinner whores" by some is more akin to a flim-flam.
It is the emotional equivalent of the old "lottery ticket" scam.
You hold out the "winning lottery ticket" in the form of potential access to your affections or your person as the "winnings", the mark pays off by paying for an expensive dinner [dinner whores only want the best] and when the sucker goes looking to cash in finds what he is holding to be worthless.
Classic bunko.
But I know you know that all your rhetoric is you simply amusing yourself. You damn well know right from wrong. You're just jerking off the tourists for kicks.
Come on... fess up.
Dinner Whores and Darwin
Guys really, really don't like realizing they've been the prey of species cockteaser, subspecies dinner whore. It makes us feel stupid and gullible.
I have a hard time deciding if it's "unethical" or not. On the one hand, I'd do a lot not to have to eat alone again, and I wouldn't like it if a woman felt she couldn't have dinner with me without creating an expectation in me that I had a chance with her. There's plenty of times I'd exchange dinner for company straight up.
OTOH, women who pretend availability to get stuff out of guys are cruel. What makes it bad is how realizing I've been had makes me feel. The price of a dinner is no big deal. I'm less vulnerable to teasing than most guys, because I long since realized that it's never real and it just annoys me.
My difficulties with the "ethics" thing is that this is how nature set things up. Sex is a zero-sum game with winners and losers, so how can playing the game by the rules that exist be unethical?
Guys really, really don't like realizing they've been the prey of species cockteaser, subspecies dinner whore. It makes us feel stupid and gullible.
I have a hard time deciding if it's "unethical" or not. On the one hand, I'd do a lot not to have to eat alone again, and I wouldn't like it if a woman felt she couldn't have dinner with me without creating an expectation in me that I had a chance with her. There's plenty of times I'd exchange dinner for company straight up.
OTOH, women who pretend availability to get stuff out of guys are cruel. What makes it bad is how realizing I've been had makes me feel. The price of a dinner is no big deal. I'm less vulnerable to teasing than most guys, because I long since realized that it's never real and it just annoys me.
My difficulties with the "ethics" thing is that this is how nature set things up. Sex is a zero-sum game with winners and losers, so how can playing the game by the rules that exist be unethical?
