This is a sensitive subject, and a lot of this is "going around the boards" lately.
On one hand, I feel it might be the best thing to simply delete this thread, but then another would probably crop up, so instead I'll ask that those who don't know anything about the issue simply stear clear.
For the issue, I think it's being stirred up by a lot of folks who don't know what happened. I recieved a note, and had continued correspondence with, the lady in question. While I can't say what she said to anyone else, SHE MADE NO CLAIMS OF BRUTALIZATION to me. In addition, she did not want to make any of this "public", she just wanted a few people to know what happened. As usual, some people felt they needed to protect/support/whatever someone ( jus tlike in this thread ), even if it meant disrespecting that persons own wishes. The result is a lot of nonsense claims, which will do no good to anyone, and will probably do some harm to both the parties involved.
I personally think that everyone would be doing both these people a favor by dropping this, and if they want to say something, let them do it themselves. Third party information almost always gets twisted ( I'm sure we've all played "telephone" in high school ), contorted, and worst of all, amplified. Two weeks from now we'll be hearing about how this girl got murdered ( but she got better ), and that the client got some terrible diesease from her ( but no one else she saw did ). THIS IS BAD FOR EVERYONE.
When the board started, one of the first things I asked was that the guys try to refrain from being "knights in shining armor", trying to defend the virtue of any lady who anyone had anything to say which wasn't 100% flattering. The same goes for the providers here.
Let's refrain from the idle gossip, rumours and innuendo. Let folks speak for themselves from first hand information. And if someone doesn't want to air their dirty laundry in public, let's respect their wishes, please.