I never have problems getting a hard on with my girlfriend or when visiting spots in different countries for play. but when ever I try an Incall spot around here, I get way too much anxiety and stage fright. it’s probably because there is no forplay what so ever in the local spots I have tried and always feels rushed and mechanical. Any advice on how to overcome this
Anxiety / stage fright
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And yet in your review 1st post on UG you said "will repeat"
https://utopiaguide.pl/forums/index.php?threads/347-822-6344-asian-incall-flushing.50912/
That said find one of the girls on 40th rd that you find attractive and arrive at a price (you can get young attractive onefor $60). Then after you arrive at a price you can say "I want to take my time and enjoy with no rush and I'll pay another 30"
They will be very happy to accommodate you especially if business is slow. bad weather, cold etc.
Note: some of the newer arrivals have very little English skills so you may have to explain using a translate app.
If you try this kindly post a review of your experience.
https://utopiaguide.pl/forums/index.php?threads/347-822-6344-asian-incall-flushing.50912/
That said find one of the girls on 40th rd that you find attractive and arrive at a price (you can get young attractive onefor $60). Then after you arrive at a price you can say "I want to take my time and enjoy with no rush and I'll pay another 30"
They will be very happy to accommodate you especially if business is slow. bad weather, cold etc.
Note: some of the newer arrivals have very little English skills so you may have to explain using a translate app.
If you try this kindly post a review of your experience.
I had started a thread about teasing / foreplay. I am someone who really enjoys teasing and foreplay. I've always hated it when I go to an AMP where they barely touch any sensitive area, tell you to flip in 5 minutes and ask "What you want?".
There are providers out there that will spend the time to get a customer good and ready. The search can be daunting. If you read the reviews of some of the providers who advertise here, you will see that some of them do take the time to make sure the customer is relaxed and ready to go. They know that a happy customer is a repeat customer.
Look for reviews that contain words like, chill, non-rushed, made me feel comfortable, etc. Be prepared to spend a little more money. A provider who puts in that kind of effort should be compensated accordingly.
There are providers out there that will spend the time to get a customer good and ready. The search can be daunting. If you read the reviews of some of the providers who advertise here, you will see that some of them do take the time to make sure the customer is relaxed and ready to go. They know that a happy customer is a repeat customer.
Look for reviews that contain words like, chill, non-rushed, made me feel comfortable, etc. Be prepared to spend a little more money. A provider who puts in that kind of effort should be compensated accordingly.
IMHO, If you are naturally fertile, or a young stud, it is never a problem. Erections are ubiquitous, and you spend most of your life hiding them. When sex is deeply rooted in your body, you are bulging all day without mental or emotional cooperation; even swinging an axe or changing a tire.
But, if you are a bit rundown from age or overuse, your choices are to limit your activity according to your natural body rhythms, or to increase your nourishment with known foods that nurture erections, which would be the healthiest choice. If that fails, possibly herbs or supplements. If that fails, then you can resort to meds and scripts.
We all here want to be sexual forces, but sometimes the body fails to cooperate. So, if we want to excel and be satisfied in this lifestyle, we must put our tool in the best environment to succeed.
For many of us, we are not full-time mongers. Many of us have jobs, families and duties that we devote the bulk of our energy to that can be depleting and it affects our performance. Then we must compensate.
But, again, there are those amongst us, that are just blessed with a powerful sexual prowess that needs little assistance beyond air, sleep, bread and water.
But, if you are a bit rundown from age or overuse, your choices are to limit your activity according to your natural body rhythms, or to increase your nourishment with known foods that nurture erections, which would be the healthiest choice. If that fails, possibly herbs or supplements. If that fails, then you can resort to meds and scripts.
We all here want to be sexual forces, but sometimes the body fails to cooperate. So, if we want to excel and be satisfied in this lifestyle, we must put our tool in the best environment to succeed.
For many of us, we are not full-time mongers. Many of us have jobs, families and duties that we devote the bulk of our energy to that can be depleting and it affects our performance. Then we must compensate.
But, again, there are those amongst us, that are just blessed with a powerful sexual prowess that needs little assistance beyond air, sleep, bread and water.
Thanks @mugi for being observant of the rules.
Here is a link to the post he made.
https://utopiaguide.pl/forums/index.php?threads/monger-health-and-healing.57272/page-2#post-1292921
Here is a link to the post he made.
https://utopiaguide.pl/forums/index.php?threads/monger-health-and-healing.57272/page-2#post-1292921
Listen sometimes the environment you are in alone can mess with you. I’ll openly admit that sometimes the nerves can get the best of you. When I was younger and started this life, your nervous. I’ve been in it for 10+ now and just don’t give a f*ck who sees me going into an establishment. I’ve got made up reasons for days
. The only thing that may still mess with my flow is the sounds of a constant phone ringing, mongers ringing door bells or the woman leaving the room a little to long or the providers down stairs look/ hygiene not being great or if they are not attentive to me. If the little guy can’t perform, get sucked to completion.
. The only thing that may still mess with my flow is the sounds of a constant phone ringing, mongers ringing door bells or the woman leaving the room a little to long or the providers down stairs look/ hygiene not being great or if they are not attentive to me. If the little guy can’t perform, get sucked to completion.I have two ways of dealing with a session.
If I know that I am really going in strong and am getting erections in my car or bus or whatever, prior to arriving with my girl, stage fright is non existent.
Confidence is all consuming, and thought is more focused on methods and techniques, positions, and apportionment of time devoted to which postures.
The second, more negative situation that is being addressed in this thread, is If I am not peaking high on the testosterone barometer, for one reason or another, and not in the habit of taking impotence drugs, best is to not even go.
However, if I cannot resist, I roll the dice and go. But, I give myself the right of first refusal. Meaning, if she ain’t what she should be, I walk.
But, if she is all that she should be, and more, I let her sexuality mingle with mine, and enjoy the delicious foreplay, and give myself permission to fail.
Nine times out of ten, you will perform optimally. And, if you don’t perform excellently, it does not matter. I still enjoyed sex with a beautiful woman. And, I will promise her that I will return when I am full of steam and powerful, and really give her a long, strong steamrolling. And, make good on that promise.
As far as the other aspect of stage fright, being continually videotaped from your approach to the venue, and possibly even during the act, itself. That is just our era, and we have to live with that. Video technology is ubiquitous and will only increase.
Knowing that I am videoed most of the time, I make sure that I am well-groomed and act appropriately and gentlemanly-like. I like to wear a hat for some semblance of camouflage.
At least in the highly unlikely situation where my video is being used against me, my demeanor and manners will not be called into question. At least It will be said that I performed this illegal act with a certain amount of elegance and dignity.
If I later have to view my own video, I want to be able to be proud that my performance in the movie is “nominatable” for one of the better pictures of the year.
If I know that I am really going in strong and am getting erections in my car or bus or whatever, prior to arriving with my girl, stage fright is non existent.
Confidence is all consuming, and thought is more focused on methods and techniques, positions, and apportionment of time devoted to which postures.
The second, more negative situation that is being addressed in this thread, is If I am not peaking high on the testosterone barometer, for one reason or another, and not in the habit of taking impotence drugs, best is to not even go.
However, if I cannot resist, I roll the dice and go. But, I give myself the right of first refusal. Meaning, if she ain’t what she should be, I walk.
But, if she is all that she should be, and more, I let her sexuality mingle with mine, and enjoy the delicious foreplay, and give myself permission to fail.
Nine times out of ten, you will perform optimally. And, if you don’t perform excellently, it does not matter. I still enjoyed sex with a beautiful woman. And, I will promise her that I will return when I am full of steam and powerful, and really give her a long, strong steamrolling. And, make good on that promise.
As far as the other aspect of stage fright, being continually videotaped from your approach to the venue, and possibly even during the act, itself. That is just our era, and we have to live with that. Video technology is ubiquitous and will only increase.
Knowing that I am videoed most of the time, I make sure that I am well-groomed and act appropriately and gentlemanly-like. I like to wear a hat for some semblance of camouflage.
At least in the highly unlikely situation where my video is being used against me, my demeanor and manners will not be called into question. At least It will be said that I performed this illegal act with a certain amount of elegance and dignity.
If I later have to view my own video, I want to be able to be proud that my performance in the movie is “nominatable” for one of the better pictures of the year.