Open season for college girls on SA (or tall tales from doughy nerds)
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I was trying to connect with hannahh1223 the other day. Spoke a bit and asked what she's into/not into. Said shes into everything except anal and humiliation type fetishes. I asked if she was open to not using a rubber and she said "no wtf i'm obv using a condom during sex i don't know u or who u fuck. I am not interested in meeting you anymore." Anyone that tries to connect, I'd recommend just assuming you'll be using protection and roll the dice. She's hot, but not hot enough for me to be willing to pay for covered vanilla sex unfortunately.
never ask if rubber is ok. always frame it in a way these girls appreciate. i will say something like “i must warn you, i am not a plain vanilla guy” or “hey, just so u know, i a real freaky”. usually they get all warmed up right away and ask what i mean. if they ask u to explain i would write out a scenario and deliberately and graphically describe a creampie. orherwise, ask “what their limits are”. if she just said no anal then u were all good to assume BBFS. sorry but think u misplayed that one especially since i know her
That’s exactly how I started - asking what her limits are and everything. Asking if she bbfs wasn’t my opener lol. As always it’s ymmv. She might’ve been okay with bbfs off the jump when you first did her and then eventually changed her mind with new people. I’ve had people do that, and also the reverse. In any case that’s more than I wanted to spend anyway. If she still wants to connect at some point, cool but I’m not losing any sleep over it
For reference the conversation essentially went like this, so people can learn from my mistakes:
Her: text me
Me: hey, let’s discuss, etc. what are you open to
Her: everything except anal, humiliation, extreme pain
Me: I’m pretty vanilla so no worries. I have some issues with condoms, any chance you’re open to not using
Her: idk you or who you fuck. Not interested anymore
That’s essentially the tl;dr in an otherwise friendly conversation. Actually, she wasn’t really rude so I have nothing against her...in multiple ways
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And most girls I’ve spoken to that said open to everything were far from it - some weren’t even open to a bj, as if that should be expected ♂️.
Her: text me
Me: hey, let’s discuss, etc. what are you open to
Her: everything except anal, humiliation, extreme pain
Me: I’m pretty vanilla so no worries. I have some issues with condoms, any chance you’re open to not using
Her: idk you or who you fuck. Not interested anymore
That’s essentially the tl;dr in an otherwise friendly conversation. Actually, she wasn’t really rude so I have nothing against her...in multiple ways
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And most girls I’ve spoken to that said open to everything were far from it - some weren’t even open to a bj, as if that should be expected ♂️.
Yeah, this exactly. Aside from just seeing what they’re willing to do, I’d rather not spend whatever amount of money on the girl and/or the hotel to get there and find out that they can only do 1 position or don’t give bbbj, etc. it’s more inelegant and I tell them I don’t mean to be rude or anything, but I just straight out ask. If I do have info on a person someone is asking about I chime in with what my responses are but usually it doesn’t make sense to just randomly say why I struck out with this girl or that. Usually, ill post something noteworthy, but like I’ve said before I’m not a volume guy, so I have a lot fewer encounters than most on here.
Also, like 80% of the women posted about on here that I’ve reached out to don’t even respond. I would guess my ethnicity has a part to do with it, but it is what it is. A fair amount of people I end up connecting with and actually like it doesn’t even make sense to post about because most removed their profiles shortly after.
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Also, I was thinking about you saying you haven’t gotten a free one yet and it reminded me of people talking about David spade. One of the reasons he was able to mow through almost all of Hollywood is because he doesn’t just keep up with pop culture, but he’s actually interested in it. Of course finding common interests is key and becoming interested in something you’re not isn’t feasible, but get a girl talking about something you wouldn’t expect an older guy to keep up with and it’ll prob get you some miles. One of the girls I hooked up with was due, in part, to me keeping up with a show that most would consider a chick show
Also, like 80% of the women posted about on here that I’ve reached out to don’t even respond. I would guess my ethnicity has a part to do with it, but it is what it is. A fair amount of people I end up connecting with and actually like it doesn’t even make sense to post about because most removed their profiles shortly after.
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Also, I was thinking about you saying you haven’t gotten a free one yet and it reminded me of people talking about David spade. One of the reasons he was able to mow through almost all of Hollywood is because he doesn’t just keep up with pop culture, but he’s actually interested in it. Of course finding common interests is key and becoming interested in something you’re not isn’t feasible, but get a girl talking about something you wouldn’t expect an older guy to keep up with and it’ll prob get you some miles. One of the girls I hooked up with was due, in part, to me keeping up with a show that most would consider a chick show
Boy you weren't kidding about her CG. Saw her last night and she basically rode me down into the box spring. Lol. BBJ CIM for the first round which was great and then covered CG for a loooong time on the second round. She is former competitive cheerleader and very fit GFE style. Her engine runs fast, prob faster than her 185 mph car. $400.
All mongols should get some regardless of color. Just ffs stop being creeps and scaring these young girls.
Definitely save the condom and sex talk for after you pleasantly introduce yourself and make it clear it’s a physical interaction for money.
Ive barebacked every girl I met on SA proudly. Still rocking disease free
Definitely save the condom and sex talk for after you pleasantly introduce yourself and make it clear it’s a physical interaction for money.
Ive barebacked every girl I met on SA proudly. Still rocking disease free
I still don't understand what was unclear about my posts, but sure. My opening salvo isn't telling them i intend to drop a load in them. And yes, there are people that will not sleep with you regardless of how much you offer them. People have preferences,and I can guarantee some of the people I've connected with would NEVER connect with some of you based on race alone. I've literally had women I've only sent like one message to tell me I had a small dick.
On a side note, though they're both dating and getting off the site I've still been talking to nybby and queenpetite. Seems like they're still open/considering hooking up, but they're going to take a bit more finessing than in the past. If anything happens I'll report back - nybby says shes done for now but is pretty open about speaking to me when we literally have no other reason to be talking to each other. qp just offered to schedule a meet again. stretched her out last time, so maybe she kept me on her list/rotation lol
Personally I enjoy the flirting route but that me and nothing wrong with everybody being on the same page especially if you're expecting something especially if everything from her is along the line is yeah baby sure. More than once I've been told or had something body language enacted that I was not expecting or asking for and it wasn't ever going to happen if I did.
Again we all have preferences but tbh many are not going to respond just as the status quo. Some you guys have mentioned I may have contacted and they don't even read the message so go figure but as you as it is what it is and there is enough to go around we're everybody on both sides are content.
Interesting as in my experience quite many of the SB are not in touch with pop culture. Again go figure. I think originally I was about prices from the get go. Now I don't bring it up unless they do which eventually they do in my case. I just try to let things flow naturally now maybe with some tweaks to the direction as just stay content, flirty, humorous and intentful.
And yes I do agree finding something interesting is helpful especially as I'm not always just straight up getting a room as I enjoy a dinner date. I listen for some clues from her and I find I can hit the ground running and have a good time even getting comments back about how do I know this and that or that I'm funny. My post dinner success is 100% .... but I'm always charged.
Again we all have preferences but tbh many are not going to respond just as the status quo. Some you guys have mentioned I may have contacted and they don't even read the message so go figure but as you as it is what it is and there is enough to go around we're everybody on both sides are content.
Interesting as in my experience quite many of the SB are not in touch with pop culture. Again go figure. I think originally I was about prices from the get go. Now I don't bring it up unless they do which eventually they do in my case. I just try to let things flow naturally now maybe with some tweaks to the direction as just stay content, flirty, humorous and intentful.
And yes I do agree finding something interesting is helpful especially as I'm not always just straight up getting a room as I enjoy a dinner date. I listen for some clues from her and I find I can hit the ground running and have a good time even getting comments back about how do I know this and that or that I'm funny. My post dinner success is 100% .... but I'm always charged.
Yeah, I spoke to her also from the same number but I'm not about to argue with someone over a girl's number. If you have another number for her, great. I still have yet to experience her bj but if she's as good as everyone is making her out to be then I'd say the wait is worth it. I've come from very few bjs in my life and the few that were able to finish me off with strictly a bj in the past..I'll just say their skills have waned. Also, she said she moved back to nassau.
Related to the quoted post, qp actually gives a pretty good bj imo. if she were motivated i'm pretty sure she could catch a load. she's also pretty tight. i went a bit soft while in her at one point and could still feel her squeezing me.
Maybe I phrased it wrong - I think more of popular shows and movies than pop culture I guess. You're definitely right about the non-reading/responding, I just tend to get that more from certain race groups. Asians usually do that to me but I've done pretty well this go around, though one im interested in now has left me on read every time with no response.
Do you have any ongoing things? You seem like you're polite enough with them, I just think it's a matter of time and some luck. I have very little dating experience and no game at all. A lot of people I've spoken to, whether we hooked up or not, were interested in a lot of things that (i assume) guys from here bring to the table aside from money - relatable, easygoing, OLDER, more experienced/knowledgeable/wordly. I'm actually talking to someone right now that just told me she isn't looking for a set allowance, just help with bills on occasion and is open to hooking up if we hit it off - i can't say how much she has going on, but she seemed interested from the get-go because I didn't just come right out and tell her to gimme that pussy(David spade reference, if anyone knows).
Related to the quoted post, qp actually gives a pretty good bj imo. if she were motivated i'm pretty sure she could catch a load. she's also pretty tight. i went a bit soft while in her at one point and could still feel her squeezing me.
Maybe I phrased it wrong - I think more of popular shows and movies than pop culture I guess. You're definitely right about the non-reading/responding, I just tend to get that more from certain race groups. Asians usually do that to me but I've done pretty well this go around, though one im interested in now has left me on read every time with no response.
Do you have any ongoing things? You seem like you're polite enough with them, I just think it's a matter of time and some luck. I have very little dating experience and no game at all. A lot of people I've spoken to, whether we hooked up or not, were interested in a lot of things that (i assume) guys from here bring to the table aside from money - relatable, easygoing, OLDER, more experienced/knowledgeable/wordly. I'm actually talking to someone right now that just told me she isn't looking for a set allowance, just help with bills on occasion and is open to hooking up if we hit it off - i can't say how much she has going on, but she seemed interested from the get-go because I didn't just come right out and tell her to gimme that pussy(David spade reference, if anyone knows).
I'm not seeing many prankage. I have an ATF SB that I was seeing many times a week for like 4 years but we hit a rocky point in Jan. We're back together but much much less so and with some bumps. I don't know how it's going to turn out yet we're still working some parts out. My time is limited so I'm currently talking with 4 very local woman never tried that but giving it a whirl since I can't see to get to be able to get anywhere else recently. But been doing so for weeks. This weekend needs to be the moment of truth for them or I'll move on. Maybe try with QP before judge lol
I say too that I have little dating experience and no game. But this week while searching youtube for something having nothing to do with anything it suggested to me to watch one of these dating videos for some reason and I had a long drive so I just kept clicking on them. Don't know how much value to put into it but it was interesting to note that many of the problems they mentioned I had but over time was able to solve by trial and error. So I credit that with my being able to pull of the dates in the first places as 5 years ago I probably couldn't have and didn't minus the pros that is.
You mention I'm polite and I do try to be but recently it's dawned on me that maybe I should change that some and see where it leads.
I say too that I have little dating experience and no game. But this week while searching youtube for something having nothing to do with anything it suggested to me to watch one of these dating videos for some reason and I had a long drive so I just kept clicking on them. Don't know how much value to put into it but it was interesting to note that many of the problems they mentioned I had but over time was able to solve by trial and error. So I credit that with my being able to pull of the dates in the first places as 5 years ago I probably couldn't have and didn't minus the pros that is.
You mention I'm polite and I do try to be but recently it's dawned on me that maybe I should change that some and see where it leads.