Guys... if you are on SA please report these profiles. Particularly Lovely Borica 25. I was messaging with her a couple of weeks ago and knew right away from the way she was talking that something was up. Now I know it is confirmed. I just reported all 4 of them. Need to teach these scammers of lesson
Open season for college girls on SA (or tall tales from doughy nerds)
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I'm not convinced of that but let me back up yeah I sort of have seen that with said alleged disenfranchised but the problem is I've also seen it with the exact opposite all equally ranging from brats, daddy's girls, wealthy snobs, and everything in between. I'm more apt to thing that in addition to what you say that society norms have changed. Also, internet porn opened the eye to anybody wanting to look. And probably a bunch of other things.
Same here. But if the opportunity is there to fool around can't always be totally selective. I've learned there is a cost and a pro and a con to everything and so what you need to do is be practical. At least that's how I look at it.
Right, too many are often thinking let's be alone and discreet and where nobody can see us and definitely all they are doing is sticking out like a sore thumb with a neon sign saying "LOOK HERE".
Right, too many are often thinking let's be alone and discreet and where nobody can see us and definitely all they are doing is sticking out like a sore thumb with a neon sign saying "LOOK HERE".
I'm never totally relaxed either but after some trial and error seems some places have been consistently drama-free. For instance supermarket and restaurant lots. Not looping around 20 times looking all over, changing spots, etc but as in actually being familiar with the place, being a patron, and before or after, do what you need to do. That way you know the flow, the time, and the where. In fact even here you can stick out like a sore thumb enough times.
There are also some places which are really only parking streets, along a highway, across from a park, etc. and ditto often little foot traffic. As above know where they are beforehand.
Some shall I say natural areas also have natural spaces for this too.
At least this has been my luck when a real room and bed isn't available.
There are also some places which are really only parking streets, along a highway, across from a park, etc. and ditto often little foot traffic. As above know where they are beforehand.
Some shall I say natural areas also have natural spaces for this too.
At least this has been my luck when a real room and bed isn't available.
Money is just one dimension of social standing, although one that’s almost always in effect for sugar relationships
My broader point is that many women (people?) turn to sexuality when they want to punch in a higher social standing weight class. See: groupies, teachers’ pets, rope lines, executive assistants with outsized roles, etc
Recall, the context here is sugar relationships being more sexually charged than civilian ones. So women who I (you?) meet in a dating context tend to be my peers in most respects and so are less likely to have insecurities driving their sexuality. This is especially true of the subset of those women who I’d actually consider having a meaningful relationship with.
My broader point is that many women (people?) turn to sexuality when they want to punch in a higher social standing weight class. See: groupies, teachers’ pets, rope lines, executive assistants with outsized roles, etc
Recall, the context here is sugar relationships being more sexually charged than civilian ones. So women who I (you?) meet in a dating context tend to be my peers in most respects and so are less likely to have insecurities driving their sexuality. This is especially true of the subset of those women who I’d actually consider having a meaningful relationship with.
Thanks for chiming in, if not corroborating, G2k.
What was the red flag? I'm very new to SA, and taken in isolation, it seemed like a decent story line (may be even true - kids, rent, gas, etc).
Some of the CL/BP terms, phrases, etc do percolate through in SA chats. Fair enough, where else can a "legit" girl seeking financial assistance go?
Scammers are also easy to spot: getting favorited by someone in Venezuela or Brazil or South Africa - either looking for a visa or outright "Nigerian Prince" email scam in new (or bare minimum!) clothing.
Would love to learn what set you off, G2k.
Also, no idea how SA deals with 'flagged' girls. Matter of fact, I don't know HOW to flag on SA, lol!
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What was the red flag? I'm very new to SA, and taken in isolation, it seemed like a decent story line (may be even true - kids, rent, gas, etc).
Some of the CL/BP terms, phrases, etc do percolate through in SA chats. Fair enough, where else can a "legit" girl seeking financial assistance go?
Scammers are also easy to spot: getting favorited by someone in Venezuela or Brazil or South Africa - either looking for a visa or outright "Nigerian Prince" email scam in new (or bare minimum!) clothing.
Would love to learn what set you off, G2k.
Also, no idea how SA deals with 'flagged' girls. Matter of fact, I don't know HOW to flag on SA, lol!
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As I've gotten older a kind of weird truth has revealed itself to me and that is there is an awful lot of people with insecurities even those most people would think don't have any and in some cases it appears that some of those thought to not have many have more and are just better maskers. At least that's the way I see it.
Similarly as for the charged or not situation I view it more as chicken and egg. That is are they more charged because of the incentive or were they already charged and the incentive is just a means of their own manipulation. I'm positive there is enough folks in both categories.
Similarly as for the charged or not situation I view it more as chicken and egg. That is are they more charged because of the incentive or were they already charged and the incentive is just a means of their own manipulation. I'm positive there is enough folks in both categories.
Just like here is a report button you can click on.
I don't know what alerted him, but IME flags include:
* Photos clearly not all of the same person
* Almost similar profile that you've seen in the past
* Husband died of say not a heart attack but of high blood pressure
* A marriage minded individual whereas there is love desired etc and as above you know you've seen it previously so it just not "authentic" enough
* The profile contradicts itself
* You ask them a question they should know the answer to and it's wrong or cryptic or ....
* I've run into problems with profile picture that involve sitting in the driver's seat of a car with their seatbelt on (yeah I know weird)
* Digits in the ID name which make no sense (many people like to use their birthday, year of birth or something witty)
* Changing their story every message
* Asking for more and more every message
* Asking all details of the arrangement in their first message under the pretext of getting past it
* Some dire situation which you MUST help them with
* Asking you to call them right away
* Making you feel guilty in some ways
* Constant postponement of everything
* Wanting to know all your personal details right away
None of these are guarantees but flags IMO
I don't know what alerted him, but IME flags include:
* Photos clearly not all of the same person
* Almost similar profile that you've seen in the past
* Husband died of say not a heart attack but of high blood pressure
* A marriage minded individual whereas there is love desired etc and as above you know you've seen it previously so it just not "authentic" enough
* The profile contradicts itself
* You ask them a question they should know the answer to and it's wrong or cryptic or ....
* I've run into problems with profile picture that involve sitting in the driver's seat of a car with their seatbelt on (yeah I know weird)
* Digits in the ID name which make no sense (many people like to use their birthday, year of birth or something witty)
* Changing their story every message
* Asking for more and more every message
* Asking all details of the arrangement in their first message under the pretext of getting past it
* Some dire situation which you MUST help them with
* Asking you to call them right away
* Making you feel guilty in some ways
* Constant postponement of everything
* Wanting to know all your personal details right away
None of these are guarantees but flags IMO
Sure. Every day I go to work with and for thousands of millionaires who are driven by their insecurities.
But I think you’re confusing “there exists” with “it is likely that”. In any case, it is my experience that the people I’ve dated in a more traditional context -especially as I got older- were far more likely to consider me as something like an equal than the people I’ve dated through more commercial channels. At least in the case of SA, I think some of that is baked in to the expectations of both sides.
Maybe your experience differs.
I completely agree that SA is self-selecting for people that think they can trade on sexuality. And I highly suspect that rather than an “or” there’s quite a bit of “and” in action.
But I think you’re confusing “there exists” with “it is likely that”. In any case, it is my experience that the people I’ve dated in a more traditional context -especially as I got older- were far more likely to consider me as something like an equal than the people I’ve dated through more commercial channels. At least in the case of SA, I think some of that is baked in to the expectations of both sides.
Maybe your experience differs.
I completely agree that SA is self-selecting for people that think they can trade on sexuality. And I highly suspect that rather than an “or” there’s quite a bit of “and” in action.
Actually I know a few millionaires with insecurities. In any event, I was tending to be focus on SBs in my response, and many of they ae not millionaires, ditto for the equal aspect, which as you say is baked into some parts in some case and not in others, that is doing a on night p4p can be very different than a LT arrangement than is not 100% sex based. Yep still an imbalance but there is one on both sides on different issues.
Another success last night.
I've got 2 regular SBs i'm seeing. Both had poor excuses to not see me last night. I actually have 1 SB that's so enamored with me that she no longer wants money, she wants to marry me and have babies with me (she's kept at a far distance but keep her handy just in case). Anyway, no luck with the regulars. There's 1 girl who was so nasty with me when I made my regular offer, that I kept her number and throw her a text just to mess with her sometimes. I had some free time and couldn't get my dick sucked by my regulars...sooo... I throw her a text. Her usual belligerent self. I start to flirt a little. She starts to warm. She reluctantly agrees to meet for a car date. I'm desperate so we meet in the middle at 80 bbbjtc with spit.
I pick her up. She's on time, looks lovely. This is around 11 last night. She says she's happily surprised. How nasty I am over text, she thought I'd be an ugly prick... lol
We find the perfect spot, into the back seat... she proceeds to devour me. This girl gave one of the best, deep throat, sloppy, spit on my cock, gag herself, tried to swallow with my cock down her throat bjs, I've ever had. Worked me better than almost anyone else ever has. And when I start to nut, I can feel her throat doing the swallow motion and she swallowed every drop. Cleaned me up and smiled at me.
I sat there stunned, giggling! She sat there and smiled. I said, what was that?! Holy shit! She said, that was the nicest cock I've ever had in my mouth, thank you (remember I was just groomed last week at that dump in bellmore). I always rinse and do I good once over on my junk before meeting anyone. I prefer to be fresh. Well talk about a pay off. She was so appreciative of those 2 things, the reward was unreal!
Anyway. She texted with me till after 1. Says she can't wait to see me again. I fought HARD with this girl! Like real enemies! Lol. Now i'm seeing her again tomorrow night.
Moral of the story is, you never know on SA!
I've got 2 regular SBs i'm seeing. Both had poor excuses to not see me last night. I actually have 1 SB that's so enamored with me that she no longer wants money, she wants to marry me and have babies with me (she's kept at a far distance but keep her handy just in case). Anyway, no luck with the regulars. There's 1 girl who was so nasty with me when I made my regular offer, that I kept her number and throw her a text just to mess with her sometimes. I had some free time and couldn't get my dick sucked by my regulars...sooo... I throw her a text. Her usual belligerent self. I start to flirt a little. She starts to warm. She reluctantly agrees to meet for a car date. I'm desperate so we meet in the middle at 80 bbbjtc with spit.
I pick her up. She's on time, looks lovely. This is around 11 last night. She says she's happily surprised. How nasty I am over text, she thought I'd be an ugly prick... lol
We find the perfect spot, into the back seat... she proceeds to devour me. This girl gave one of the best, deep throat, sloppy, spit on my cock, gag herself, tried to swallow with my cock down her throat bjs, I've ever had. Worked me better than almost anyone else ever has. And when I start to nut, I can feel her throat doing the swallow motion and she swallowed every drop. Cleaned me up and smiled at me.
I sat there stunned, giggling! She sat there and smiled. I said, what was that?! Holy shit! She said, that was the nicest cock I've ever had in my mouth, thank you (remember I was just groomed last week at that dump in bellmore). I always rinse and do I good once over on my junk before meeting anyone. I prefer to be fresh. Well talk about a pay off. She was so appreciative of those 2 things, the reward was unreal!
Anyway. She texted with me till after 1. Says she can't wait to see me again. I fought HARD with this girl! Like real enemies! Lol. Now i'm seeing her again tomorrow night.
Moral of the story is, you never know on SA!
