noob123 Thanks for sharing that info on Red Sun Foot Spa. You'd be surprised at how many "legit" places will give you more than just a massage if you are a steady and trustworthy customer. There's one place listed on this thread that I've gotten HE's at that everyone swears it's not available there. Be a generous tipper, kind, respectful and doors will open (and pants will drop! lol)
Ditto. Once I'm known at a place I get bra off, and HE from 80% of the girls at a place and maybe DATY with 50% of the girls and bj with maybe 1/10. I've even gotten FS at one place totally legit place (license on the wall) from 2 of the girls there.
Be pleasant, remember the girls names, (when you see a new girl even though you don't plan to use her or are on your way out, introduce yourself and ask her name) tip decently (and more if you get extras).
You might also think about picking up a couple of $ of fruit on your way to the place and take it out of the bag when you get there - tell all the girls it's for them - sure fire way to have them remember you especially if your regular girl isn't available one and you pick another. I also ask (sometime mime is required if English skills are very limited) if they have a child back in china - almost all do. If they do ask if boy or girl, how old, and if she calls them on the phone frequently - give big smile and nod your head approvingly when she says yes.
At legit places these girls work really hard and long hours for very little $. Trust me, besides getting a return on treating them respectfully, it is simply the right thing to do.
PS. all this is in my book
The Art of Mongering, Chapter 3: How to act like a mensch - all upside and no downside