When providers cross the line
Recently I've stayed away from the lower end providers that I was seeing. By this I mean the 60 dollar BBJCIM crowd so to speak. What's ridiculous is I've been contacted by one of them on more than one occasion for $. Most recently I have a provider sending desperate texts to me saying "I'm gonna be on the street if I dont get $ for a hotel" and similar other ridiculous requests. Now the only reason I'm posting this is this might happen to you early on.I was ripped off 3 weeks into mongering on one of these bogus pleas for help.
Nothing says setting you up for a rip off or just plain throwing money out the window than this request. I've seen her 3 times ,she's not the cheapest but does bbbjcim for 100 or less and sometimes her friend helps. I politely tell her I cant see her but she persists so I just plain ignore her,and next I'll block her #. I've recently been experimenting with a Google Voice # which I may go with for the future.
Bottom line is if I needed $ theres no way they'd give me a loan! Provider /monger relationship is JUST THAT,not a western union or bank.
Recently I've stayed away from the lower end providers that I was seeing. By this I mean the 60 dollar BBJCIM crowd so to speak. What's ridiculous is I've been contacted by one of them on more than one occasion for $. Most recently I have a provider sending desperate texts to me saying "I'm gonna be on the street if I dont get $ for a hotel" and similar other ridiculous requests. Now the only reason I'm posting this is this might happen to you early on.I was ripped off 3 weeks into mongering on one of these bogus pleas for help.
Nothing says setting you up for a rip off or just plain throwing money out the window than this request. I've seen her 3 times ,she's not the cheapest but does bbbjcim for 100 or less and sometimes her friend helps. I politely tell her I cant see her but she persists so I just plain ignore her,and next I'll block her #. I've recently been experimenting with a Google Voice # which I may go with for the future.
Bottom line is if I needed $ theres no way they'd give me a loan! Provider /monger relationship is JUST THAT,not a western union or bank.