Seem to remember there also was a Whale gangbang party that I never wanted on my bucket list. Not sure if that’s still out there.
You could always go to one of those BBW parties where there's always plenty of food but you get nervous that you might be on the menu.
While back (early 2000's?) there was Beth's Parties in Central Islip area where she and a bunch of other fatties would organize a party. You paid $10 fee for the food and beverages (soda, juice, beer and wine. No drugs. There was all kinds of good hot and cold home made food served buffet style - besides knowing how to eat they knew how to cook. It was in a house, had lots of rooms and a hot tub outside. All the rooms had mattresses or beds and there were bowls everywhere filled with condoms and bottles of KY. All vaginal sex was covered, don't know if greek was available. Didn't see any bi action. Some rooms such as the living room were gang bang rooms and others you could take one of them to a room with a bed and close the door if wanted.
None of these were hooker or trailer park types, all where white, very pleasant and could hold a decent conversation. All ages. Very few tat's - if they had one maybe a rose on ankle or shoulder.
I think these were just women who for just wanted to be the center of attention sexually and were willing to settle for this once a month or so. Given the amount of fod and beverages was not done for the money - maybe break even.
The activities started early afternoon, (Saturday ?) and lasted into the late evening with some staying all day and other guys and girls showing up and leaving.
If you left your email address you could get on a notice list for future parties - I didn't so I don't know if this one exists anymore.