Why is BBFS the preference by some? Eddy wants to know.

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Fellas, please explain to me because I dont understand. Why not use a condom? Is the feeling more important the health? I just think about Charlie Sheen when I read reviews from BBFS. Is there really nothing to worry about?
 

billyS

Reign of Terror
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Just a note here. Usually I delete any post that questions or preaches how dangerous BBFS can be.

But I like the way Eddy phrased this.

It invites answers on the positive side of BBFS. Why do you prefer it.

So very simple. The guys who should be replying to this thread are the guys who prefer and are not afraid of BBFS.

Any posts that say shit like " you have to be crazy to fuck a prostitute raw" or start spouting medical evidence will be deleted and make the the poster eligible for moderation.
 

billyS

Reign of Terror
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Okay Eddy, here is my take.

First off I have been extremely lucky that in roughly 40 years of on and off participating in this hobby I have never contracted an STD. Although I know this isn't foolproof but I do choose who I do raw with some discretion.

Also during those 40 years at the times I had a SO and hobbied on the side I never did BBFS to protect my partner at the time.

But at the times when I am not in a relationship or where bare isn't happening then I seek it out in PFP.

So why do raw?
Some girls just have golden pussies that have that tight gripping feeling, Shy and Cathy from 1f come to mind immediately. With them a condom doesn't take away from the experience.

But in general while it feels great to be inside a tight pussy something is just missing with the feeling.

Human males have evolved to find that pleasurable feeling of the slippery tightness of the vajayjay to keep the species alive.

Another factor for me anyway is the risk and how it generates a heighten sense of arousal.
Especially when raw isn't necessarily negotiated ahead of time but she seems open to it.

I'm not talking about raping her or trying to sneak it in but sometimes during the warm up activities it isn't mentioned and you just want to see if she is into it.

In these case I will either broach the subject by saying something like "can I have a few strokes raw" to see how she reacts or I will run my cock on her pussy lips to see how she reacts. If she smiles and gives you that look you know it's okay.

Once inside there is that heightened anxiety ( in a good way) Is she going to make me pull out? Am I going to get her pregnant if I cum in her? How long is she going to let me slide my hard cock in and out of her before she changes her mind?

Sometimes the girl will hint she wants it.
There was a Sanford girl who was one of my go to's that initiated it one day in CG but told me not to cum in her but then didn't head my warning that I was close and some got in her.
Once I saw she really wasn't concerned later we wouldn't even discuss it and I would just cum in her to her delite.

That's my BBFS reasoning.
 
#5
Before i got into the hobby i was dating a girl that i had just gotten on bc and switched to bareback sex instead of condom sex. Unfortunately that relationship ended but i was still craving the bbfs experience, and i have absolutely no game as a fat dude in his 20s, so hookers are the way to go.

That said, yeah it's stupid, but it's just something i crave. Besides, I dont usually TOFTT, and only see reviewed girls or AMPs, so my risk of getting something is low, at least i think so.
 
#6
Okay Eddy, here is my take.

First off I have been extremely lucky that in roughly 40 years of on and off participating in this hobby I have never contracted an STD. Although I know this isn't foolproof but I do choose who I do raw with some discretion.

Also during those 40 years at the times I had a SO and hobbied on the side I never did BBFS to protect my partner at the time.

But at the times when I am not in a relationship or where bare isn't happening then I seek it out in PFP.

So why do raw?
Some girls just have golden pussies that have that tight gripping feeling, Shy and Cathy from 1f come to mind immediately. With them a condom doesn't take away from the experience.

But in general while it feels great to be inside a tight pussy something is just missing with the feeling.

Human males have evolved to find that pleasurable feeling of the slippery tightness of the vajayjay to keep the species alive.

Another factor for me anyway is the risk and how it generates a heighten sense of arousal.
Especially when raw isn't necessarily negotiated ahead of time but she seems open to it.

I'm not talking about raping her or trying to sneak it in but sometimes during the warm up activities it isn't mentioned and you just want to see if she is into it.

In these case I will either broach the subject by saying something like "can I have a few strokes raw" to see how she reacts or I will run my cock on her pussy lips to see how she reacts. If she smiles and gives you that look you know it's okay.

Once inside there is that heightened anxiety ( in a good way) Is she going to make me pull out? Am I going to get her pregnant if I cum in her? How long is she going to let me slide my hard cock in and out of her before she changes her mind?

Sometimes the girl will hint she wants it.
There was a Sanford girl who was one of my go to's that initiated it one day in CG but told me not to cum in her but then didn't head my warning that I was close and some got in her.
Once I saw she really wasn't concerned later we wouldn't even discuss it and I would just cum in her to her delite.

That's my BBFS reasoning.
Thanks! I did BBFS with one worker buy we were very close (going out to eat and so on..). It was not a first time meeting and we convinced each other that we were both safe. One other time for me was a complete rush of the moment and I had that "WTF did I just do?" afterwards. But like you said, it was great. Now I'm seeing my ex-girlfriend again who is the best fuck I have ever had, or it used to be, because now she wants me to use a condom and I noticed she is not as wet with the condom and hitting her uterus doesn't feel the same. So I really get it. I just think I'm looking for a guide to what to look for when making that decision..
 
#7
I had one provider I did BBFS with. She told me in her broken English the first time I was slipping it "No Babies," so that answered the CIP question. I had been seeing her for a few months and trusted each other enough to do it, and it included anal. Did it a few times before I got spooked by it and reverted back to CFS.
Sadly this was before I discovered this board and she has since retired from the business
 
#8
This is a big one for me. There is magic being inside a raw vagina. The wet,warm, silky soft walls. The look of it, The feel of it, the smell of it! We all came from that place and our reptilian brain is hardwired to want to go back in there. While inside, You absorb their chi and Vice a versa. It fortifies the spirit and brings you closer to the source. Good pussy juice is the fountain of youth. Having sex with a condom on just doesn’t feel real to me. There’s a big DNA exchange when penis meets vagina. Like they say in crime scene school: wherever you go you leave something of yours and take something of theirs.

When I was a LEO for 25yrs I was living the life of a rockstar. Community policing and home visits, so easy to hook up with hot babes.. along with other female cops. So much pussy of all colors shapes and sizes. And yes, ghetto pussy and even lesbians, 5 different ones to be exact, an untapped resource most guys wouldn’t even think to approach. There’s Something about dealing with life and death every day makes human beings really horny for each other. Back in the day it seemed like everybody was doing everybody in the Precinct and mostly raw. God help you if you did a bad job, had a small dick or stinky pussy, The whole command would hear about it. When the spouses would call looking for their husband or wife, whoever answered the phone would know to cover and say he or she’s not here right now they’re out on a job, even if they took off. My buddy would hear I did so and so and he would ask me “ did you use protection?” My famous line, “ of course I did, I had my gun on the nightstand“. Unfortunately this is why so many cops are now paying child support. Indiscriminate loads shot inside the wrong women. “ it’s OK cum in me Poppy, damay Leche”. I am sure several readers on this forum have heard that once or twice. Don’t believe it along with the “I’m on birth control and can’t get pregnant”. And if you were the first white guy that a black girl’s ever been with, you can bet she wants to feel you uncovered


Today, I still have my two or three amp girls that I do raw. While they say “no cum inside” I say “ok” but still manage to release three or four small squirts during the session. It provides good lubrication as well, then the final load on their tummy. And it’s been proven scientifically that a chemical in your semen when the woman absorbs it makes them actually desire you more.


Should you have safe sex? of course you should and it’s a roll of the dice when you don’t. We’re all grownups here and we take our chances.
I really don’t believe the “ only you like this“ line the amp girls say, although I’d like to. I just hope other guys that are in front of me or behind me are clean.

35 years mongering I’ve had my share of STDs. In this game you need to have a good primary care physician who will give you a shot and a prescription to take home and share with your significant other under the guise of a UTI infection. I always have a few Z packs handy that I stockpile although they don’t cure everything.

If you are in doubt And need to get tested there’s some good Internet sites like std check.com where you can get tested on the down low without your primary care knowing about it. On another note unrelated to this : if you need to see a medical specialist right away do not wait weeks for an appointment. Download the Zocdoc app and you can get an appointment the very same day with a specialist Who will take your insurance, it’s the best thing ever and there’s so many different Physicians in the net work.

I miss those days. It was nice reminiscing. Wishing all my fellow mongers a good safe session.
 
#9
I have a warped way of thinking. I’m actually ridiculous. In my non p4p life I’ve never used a condom, and I’m in the mid triple digit range (I used to keep track through my 20’s). Some were very questionable decisions lol. After sex I do crazy things that probably don’t prevent any STD’s but it puts my mind at ease.
But when it’s P4P I’ve only gone in raw once. And the only time it happened I was petrified for a long time. Why I think it’s safe to do in one part of life and not the other? I have no clue.

but hey, still at it. No STD’s and no kids. It’s working out for me :D
 
#10
Shooting in a random without fears of getting hot with child support is pretty nice. I use condoms but one didnt have any available so i had to go raw. I was pretty.nervous about it but it felt so good to just guilt free shoot in her and leave. Saw her another time and went raw again since i already did it before, then she just got too unreliable.
 
#11
One thing I can tell you is that really scary the 1st couple times but the feeling of CIP is something unique.

The very 1st provider I did it with on multiple times was NND (no longer active) and it was something I looked forward to despite the high traffic as demonstrated by reviews on the site.

I honestly cant recall the times I actually used protection anymore because I have been mostly doing bbfs exclusively for the past year or so.

Only providers I suited up for were a couple SW and Bianca (because she was so tight & I wanted to last longer than 5 munutes)

Overall, its the sensation and experience you get out of it.

I keep telling myself this will be the last time but keep confirming whether or not CIP or BBFS is on the menu so It will be a hard habit to quit (& I thought quitting smoking was hard)

Like many have said, just get yourself checked out and played it safe with your SO/FWB
 

pokler

Power Bottom
#13
Too afraid to knock some girl up.
Not worth the risk

Another one too stupid to read the bold large print at the top of the thread.
 
#14
BB just feels so much better. When I have a SO I always enjoyed the point in the relationship when we got rid of the condom. I got snipped many many years ago so pregnancy was never an issue.

For mongering I have strict no BBFS rule.. . . Well it's a guideline . . . . more of an intent. LOL Whenever I do FS 90% of the time I use a condom. But, there have been some times when the little head takes control and I throw caution (and sense) to the wind. BB just feels so much better, and CIP is like planting a flag. I do worry about STDs, but in the heat of passion it is tough to think straight. All the blood has left the brain and moved south for the duration.

I should add that the few times I went BB with a provider, it was someone I had been seeing regularly.
 
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