When you ask for something and get completely opposite

[All66]

Hello, gents.
Lately, I had few surprising and unpleasent experiences. When you call to make and appointment with someone in particular, thats actually what you want to get. Not so fast. Couple of times I requested appointments with one of my favorite girls, but when I arrived I either was told that my regular girl "stepped out" or that she is "not available" or that they have "somebody much better" or some other bull. Things like that happend on different ocassions in different MPs. I don't like to start my session with aggrevation, so usually I just agree to take appointment with "someone else". Sometimes I am happy sometimes not. But, that's not a point. Should I mention that I will not take any substitute by the time I make appointment or just walk away if I don't get my girl when I am there. I don't like to be tough guy to avoid bad service. But it seems that they take advantage on it. Any advices? Thank you. Old guy Al.

 

[Cobra]

appointments

Old Guy Al, if you make an appointment for a certain lady, and you are a regular customer, you should get what you asked for. No Bull Shit! Tell them if she isn't available neither are you! They will get the message asap. Good luck and hang in there!!

 

[ryan]

I have had a couple unpleasant experiences at spas over the years (i.e. rare, but it happens) but not that one. Whenever I have called to make an appointment with someone at a specified time that's what has happened. At least as far as I can remember.

Asking you to make another choice when you arrive is unacceptable and unprofessional. There might be some places where the phone person makes an appointment they aren't 100% sure they can deliver, just to get you to come in. I would ask to speak with the manager, either in person or call back. Tell him/her you called ahead of time to smake the appointment, and then you travelled a long way to get there. If the manager sounds like they don't care and doesn't make it up to you somehow, don't go back. And post the name of the place here so others will know they might be wasting their time trying to see someone here.

 

[Slinky Bender]

"Tell them if she isn't available neither are you! They will get the message asap. "

More importantly, if you stay, they will also get the message - that message being "tell him whatever it takes to get him in, because once he's here, he'll stay". This is bad not only for you, but for everyone else who uses this place. Don't "train" anyplace to use such tactics by condoning this type of behaviour ( i.e. staying ). They do this because it works. When it stops working, they will stop doing it !

 

[Bill Furniture]

I've had it happen to me a few times at Escort Agencies. More often than not, the experience wasn't as good as what I would have had with my intended companion. It happened to me recently, and when I called another place last week and my pick was booked, they suggested that I choose another girl and offered the lineup. I told them I'd pass this time.

 

[tommynj]

This is the incall version of bait & switch. Do not put up with it!

 

[mydesign]

only excuse I can see is if it is an amp and the mamasan really doesn't understand english too well. Next time, try telling the phone person you definitely want to see the particular girl and if they switch her on you, hten get huffy and say you are going to leave.

Maybe you can get a free session, or at least discounted, if you speak up

 

[zipper]

slinky is right. you are going to places that will say anything to get you in. theyre betting once youre there youll stay since youre already there and in the mood.
maybe begin by asking for the girl's schedule that you want to see:
" when is so&so working?"
maybe theyll tell you the truth
if you go when that girl is physically there they may let you wait for her even if she winds up with another client during the time you'd requested her for.
or go to one girl per shift places, then there shouldnt be any confusion who you'll see

 

[All66]

requests

Guys, thank you very much for replies. The problem is that when you call and request specific girl and set an appointment, you don't want to sound grouchy. But when you drive for a half an hour and your attendant "will be available in 40 min" or "she had an emergency and left" or "she called off sick" and you know that's not true. But....of cause you can leave or you can make a noise or whatever. It's not going to change anything. When you drive 20-40 min there and have to do the same back and you can't wait, and your wife expects you to be home at 8 PM and blah-blah-blah.....The point is you don't want to leave empty handed or should I say you actually want to empty something in your body (including your pocket). I hate to feel as stupid as I feel every time when it happends. Not realy often, but it does. And if I just leave I will feel even more stupid. It's not the most pleasent feeling when you are almost 70.

 

[holeinone]

i've had that happen once before. i saw someone else and it turned out okay. if it is an on-going thing about a certain place, then that is something i think i would take up with their managers. but, the thing is, i too have to cancel sometimes or have a change in my business schedule. it's the beauty of the business. it's the only service where we can cancel on VERY short notice and not be charged.

 

[Bobbycat]

Next time this happens to you complain at the window, request the manager or tell the the girl at the window you will leave, if you have paid ask for your money back these places hate to loose money and the thought of losing a customer will light a fire in just the right place, sometimes the girl you requested is on the premises possibly busy or maybe they just want to show off the new girl. But what ever you do if they dont deliver the goods, dont stay as a previous poster said dont allow them to continue to mislead us hobbist.

 

[Aristotle]

What slinky said.

(And if you have a surplus of free time, go over to TBD's DC board and search the archives for the various posts made by 2big4U. Look at both the escort and massage boards.

(You might not like everything you see, but you'll at least know how to get just what you want.)

 

[All66]

Thank you note

Dear Aristotle, I would like to thank you for refering to 2big4u posts. I found 183 of them on TBD board. Well, I must admit I checked all of them. This guy has wonderfull sence of humor, sharp tongue and very good eye for details. He also enjoys the subject. I think that most of us would find his notes not only interteining, but also usefull. It was great sourse of information along with a lot of laughs. Thank you very much again.