When do I learn?

[DashingDan]

I'm guessing this is the right area to post this...

After being in this hobby for 30+ years I’m now mostly looking for a good massage in a place with easy parking and a hand job or CBJ. I use to see more GFE experiences but have stopped. I got a call from a young lady, probably in her early 30’s, whom I met when I did the GFE sessions. She’s touring and working in Manhattan. She wanted me to spend the night. I’m almost 60 and enjoy sex with my wife not sure why I want to spend the night with a young provider but it’s hard to refuse a freebie. Even with my reservations I made arraignments at work and my wife knew I would be working through the night.

I show up to the hotel slightly before 11 and hang out in the lobby wondering why I’m there. She comes down after a few minutes to tell me she wanted to go to a bar. I’m not too happy about it because I rarely stay up past midnight now. So we head to a bar and she wants to role play being strangers and we hook up in the bar. Again I’m wondering to myself what the fuck am I doing here? She’s gorgeous and I go with it because my brain is in my pants. She tells me to go into the bar first so I do still wondering why I’m doing this. We spend about a half hour at the bar and it’s fun but I’d prefer to have just spent the time in her room. We get to her room and it’s now it’s after midnight. We shower together and move to the bed. After we’re done I just want to sleep, it’s really late for me. She wants to cuddle for a while and then she is texting with people. She’s considerate and turns off the lights while texting but she’s constantly giggling. I wake up because she’s blowing me but I can’t get it up again, I just want to sleep and she understands. I check my phone and respond to a text from my wife, it’s almost 4 AM. I use the opportunity to go take a leak because I would have to soon anyway. We go back to sleep, the next thing I know is she had an alarm set for 8 AM. She says she would like to do this again some time but I hope I’ve learned and will say no but I don’t know if I’m wise enough.

 

[frogger54]

I'm guessing this is the right area to post this...

After being in this hobby for 30+ years I’m now mostly looking for a good massage in a place with easy parking and a hand job or CBJ. I use to see more GFE experiences but have stopped. I got a call from a young lady, probably in her early 30’s, whom I met when I did the GFE sessions. She’s touring and working in Manhattan. She wanted me to spend the night. I’m almost 60 and enjoy sex with my wife not sure why I want to spend the night with a young provider but it’s hard to refuse a freebie. Even with my reservations I made arraignments at work and my wife knew I would be working through the night.

I show up to the hotel slightly before 11 and hang out in the lobby wondering why I’m there. She comes down after a few minutes to tell me she wanted to go to a bar. I’m not too happy about it because I rarely stay up past midnight now. So we head to a bar and she wants to role play being strangers and we hook up in the bar. Again I’m wondering to myself what the fuck am I doing here? She’s gorgeous and I go with it because my brain is in my pants. She tells me to go into the bar first so I do still wondering why I’m doing this. We spend about a half hour at the bar and it’s fun but I’d prefer to have just spent the time in her room. We get to her room and it’s now it’s after midnight. We shower together and move to the bed. After we’re done I just want to sleep, it’s really late for me. She wants to cuddle for a while and then she is texting with people. She’s considerate and turns off the lights while texting but she’s constantly giggling. I wake up because she’s blowing me but I can’t get it up again, I just want to sleep and she understands. I check my phone and respond to a text from my wife, it’s almost 4 AM. I use the opportunity to go take a leak because I would have to soon anyway. We go back to sleep, the next thing I know is she had an alarm set for 8 AM. She says she would like to do this again some time but I hope I’ve learned and will say no but I don’t know if I’m wise enough.

Poor you. The things you suffer through. Seems horrific!

 

[Flintfred]

I often wonder when I’ll learn too. Especially on days when I know I could have sex with my SO but someone I met on SA (who’s younger) or some provider reaches out and offers to meet… I’ll end up meeting with the girl and then thinking WTF am I doing.

Still fun, but I get what you’re saying. It’s even more true when the session with the other girl just wasn’t worth it.

 

[trader1]

I'm guessing this is the right area to post this...

After being in this hobby for 30+ years I’m now mostly looking for a good massage in a place with easy parking and a hand job or CBJ. I use to see more GFE experiences but have stopped. I got a call from a young lady, probably in her early 30’s, whom I met when I did the GFE sessions. She’s touring and working in Manhattan. She wanted me to spend the night. I’m almost 60 and enjoy sex with my wife not sure why I want to spend the night with a young provider but it’s hard to refuse a freebie. Even with my reservations I made arraignments at work and my wife knew I would be working through the night.

I show up to the hotel slightly before 11 and hang out in the lobby wondering why I’m there. She comes down after a few minutes to tell me she wanted to go to a bar. I’m not too happy about it because I rarely stay up past midnight now. So we head to a bar and she wants to role play being strangers and we hook up in the bar. Again I’m wondering to myself what the fuck am I doing here? She’s gorgeous and I go with it because my brain is in my pants. She tells me to go into the bar first so I do still wondering why I’m doing this. We spend about a half hour at the bar and it’s fun but I’d prefer to have just spent the time in her room. We get to her room and it’s now it’s after midnight. We shower together and move to the bed. After we’re done I just want to sleep, it’s really late for me. She wants to cuddle for a while and then she is texting with people. She’s considerate and turns off the lights while texting but she’s constantly giggling. I wake up because she’s blowing me but I can’t get it up again, I just want to sleep and she understands. I check my phone and respond to a text from my wife, it’s almost 4 AM. I use the opportunity to go take a leak because I would have to soon anyway. We go back to sleep, the next thing I know is she had an alarm set for 8 AM. She says she would like to do this again some time but I hope I’ve learned and will say no but I don’t know if I’m wise enough.

I think you should consider yourself a lucky man… Freebie, roleplay 1/2 your age… Hmmm.. You can give her my number if no longer interested-

 

[Bricktop]

I'm guessing this is the right area to post this...

After being in this hobby for 30+ years I’m now mostly looking for a good massage in a place with easy parking and a hand job or CBJ. I use to see more GFE experiences but have stopped. I got a call from a young lady, probably in her early 30’s, whom I met when I did the GFE sessions. She’s touring and working in Manhattan. She wanted me to spend the night. I’m almost 60 and enjoy sex with my wife not sure why I want to spend the night with a young provider but it’s hard to refuse a freebie. Even with my reservations I made arraignments at work and my wife knew I would be working through the night.

I show up to the hotel slightly before 11 and hang out in the lobby wondering why I’m there. She comes down after a few minutes to tell me she wanted to go to a bar. I’m not too happy about it because I rarely stay up past midnight now. So we head to a bar and she wants to role play being strangers and we hook up in the bar. Again I’m wondering to myself what the fuck am I doing here? She’s gorgeous and I go with it because my brain is in my pants. She tells me to go into the bar first so I do still wondering why I’m doing this. We spend about a half hour at the bar and it’s fun but I’d prefer to have just spent the time in her room. We get to her room and it’s now it’s after midnight. We shower together and move to the bed. After we’re done I just want to sleep, it’s really late for me. She wants to cuddle for a while and then she is texting with people. She’s considerate and turns off the lights while texting but she’s constantly giggling. I wake up because she’s blowing me but I can’t get it up again, I just want to sleep and she understands. I check my phone and respond to a text from my wife, it’s almost 4 AM. I use the opportunity to go take a leak because I would have to soon anyway. We go back to sleep, the next thing I know is she had an alarm set for 8 AM. She says she would like to do this again some time but I hope I’ve learned and will say no but I don’t know if I’m wise enough.

Waking up to a blowjob!!! Next time she calls get some C

 

[MassyMan]

When will you learn to enjoy life and count your blessings is the problem here. Do you have a guilt associated to still mongering or something? Sounds like that’s the case.

a freebie all night, multiple session with an upscale Manhattan provider half your age has you on the other side of feeling happy? This is a new level of absurd here at UG. I’m sure @mugi will be here soon to chime in and make it all come around full eastern mysticism.

next time tell the girl you have a role play idea, that you have a group of horny and experienced friends that will show her the gang bang of her life. Even better for us if it’s a freebie and she gets the room too

 

[billyS]

@DashingDan,
You're playing us, right?

The nerve of her sucking your dick while you are trying to sleep.

And you're claiming this was all free?

So this was a booty call. You're a lucky guy.

 

[mugi]

When will you learn to enjoy life and count your blessings is the problem here. Do you have a guilt associated to still mongering or something? Sounds like that’s the case.

a freebie all night, multiple session with an upscale Manhattan provider half your age has you on the other side of feeling happy? This is a new level of absurd here at UG. I’m sure @mugi will be here soon to chime in and make it all come around full eastern mysticism.

next time tell the girl you have a role play idea, that you have a group of horny and experienced friends that will show her the gang bang of her life. Even better for us if it’s a freebie and she gets the room too

“I’m sure @mugi will be here soon to chime in and make it all come around full eastern mysticism.”

Well, you asked for it.

Short and simple, we do this to make ourselves happy. If we walk away second guessing ourselves, not exhilarated by the sexual energy and the rendezvous, we probably did not make the best choice for that evening.

And not making the best choice could put us in danger. If we are acting against our gut feeling, we are acting without our full power. We might be in the wrong place at the wrong time.

I do allow my Johnson to overrule my intelligence. But, I do not allow my Johnson to overrule my gut feeling.

We mongers are very instinctual creatures. Many of us have had decades in this hobby in countless whorehouses and bedrooms, and remained free from major catastrophes like: STD’s, LE and jail, scandal, loss of job, loss of SO, loss of respect, death, a jealous husband’s beating with a weapon, poverty, et cetera.

Didn’t happen by accident and pure intelligence. We trusted our gut.

I go out and have my fun, but if the “spider-sense says “Mugi, back off; go tomorrow when you are positive and strong,” you better believe that I listen, and I live to see another day.

I once drove around from place to place, AMP to AMP, and each place felt wrong. I just could not go in. I am sure they were safe and all, but maybe those girls were not a good match that night. They were all untried and unreviewed.

But, my gut, my spidey-sense, my intuition, my spirit, whatever you want to call it; it goes by so many names, urged me to a certain spot.

And, I was so happy that I listened. From the get-go it was harmonious. I had a lovely girl, everything was immaculately clean and charming, and something occurred that night that I have not heard in so many years. Something I forgot about. Sad to say. But, in the height of passion she screamed out my AMP alias. (no, not Mugi)

It was sex like any other sex, but it just blew me away that she screamed my name and she melted in my arms. Made me feel so warm and touched. I walked away so deeply energized and moved. I was happy. It was time well spent. It was good for my soul. It made me feel grander, wanted and needed, truly appreciated, loved.

She asked me why I came there because she was used to regulars and referrals. I told her a feeling drove me there.

Afterwards, she had time and she held onto me and we talked about her life. Very fulfilling sexually, emotionally and spiritually.

So my only rule is to listen to that still small voice within, because it does not want you to be denied. It is there to serve you, that you might be fulfilled with the best life has to offer, and sexual happiness is a very important aspect of life for many of us.

 

[TheRicker]

Thanks massy

 

[DashingDan]

I can see it sounds like I’m complaining about the experience but I realized I’m complaining about myself and how I have to accept my age. If I was 45 or younger I would have loved what I had last night. Now I’m just a crotchety old man. When I was younger I would’ve loved that role play because guys were clearly checking her out and wondering why she was in my lap. Now I’m annoyed that it was so late and I would’ve preferred to relax in her room with some scotch. All that freaking texting or what ever she was doing was annoying. The worst part was how she was blowing me for a while and I couldn’t get it up. She was supportive and understanding I couldn’t ask for more of her but maybe more of me.

I’m turning into that over the hill athlete that every know knows shouldn’t go back in the ring or on the gridiron but won’t accept it. I’m like Ali getting in the ring with Spinks the first time. I got some fights left but I’m not fighting like I did a decade ago. I don’t want to end up like Ali fighting Holmes. I just wonder if I can learn from this and if the offer ever comes again I can say no.

There are people in my life that knows about the hobby but I don't think I can admit to them how I feel about last night.

 

[JimmyJam77]

I don’t think it’s age

I can see it sounds like I’m complaining about the experience but I realized I’m complaining about myself and how I have to accept my age. If I was 45 or younger I would have loved what I had last night. Now I’m just a crotchety old man. When I was younger I would’ve loved that role play because guys were clearly checking her out and wondering why she was in my lap. Now I’m annoyed that it was so late and I would’ve preferred to relax in her room with some scotch. All that freaking texting or what ever she was doing was annoying. The worst part was how she was blowing me for a while and I couldn’t get it up. She was supportive and understanding I couldn’t ask for more of her but maybe more of me.

I’m turning into that over the hill athlete that every know knows shouldn’t go back in the ring or on the gridiron but won’t accept it. I’m like Ali getting in the ring with Spinks the first time. I got some fights left but I’m not fighting like I did a decade ago. I don’t want to end up like Ali fighting Holmes. I just wonder if I can learn from this and if the offer ever comes again I can say no.

There are people in my life that knows about the hobby but I don't think I can admit to them how I feel about last night.

I don’t think it’s age thing but more of a lifestyle issue. Next time do your escapades during the day and on your terms.

 

[trader1]

I can see it sounds like I’m complaining about the experience but I realized I’m complaining about myself and how I have to accept my age. If I was 45 or younger I would have loved what I had last night. Now I’m just a crotchety old man. When I was younger I would’ve loved that role play because guys were clearly checking her out and wondering why she was in my lap. Now I’m annoyed that it was so late and I would’ve preferred to relax in her room with some scotch. All that freaking texting or what ever she was doing was annoying. The worst part was how she was blowing me for a while and I couldn’t get it up. She was supportive and understanding I couldn’t ask for more of her but maybe more of me.

I’m turning into that over the hill athlete that every know knows shouldn’t go back in the ring or on the gridiron but won’t accept it. I’m like Ali getting in the ring with Spinks the first time. I got some fights left but I’m not fighting like I did a decade ago. I don’t want to end up like Ali fighting Holmes. I just wonder if I can learn from this and if the offer ever comes again I can say no.

There are people in my life that knows about the hobby but I don't think I can admit to them how I feel about last night.

Accept your age and move on.. !!
Cherish the moment that a beautiful young woman was gracious? kind? humble? ( or whatever you wish to say) to have spent the night with you, despite your age and physical limitations—

I would be grateful to find myself in your situation— Knowing someone takes you for what you are ( not just a cash register), enjoys spending time together and so forth…

Stop beating yourself up..

 

[trader1]

“I’m sure @mugi will be here soon to chime in and make it all come around full eastern mysticism.”

Well, you asked for it.


Gotta love these posts

 

[Roxy84]

And you guys are going with it. Do you remember that guys fantasy post about impregnating a SW and being her to States for Green card. I kinda feel same about this post. It sounds like someone’s fantasy or a trolling. How many of you are falling for it?
Whatever this guy is mentioning, it’s like all boxes checked. This is kinda porn fiction.

 

[steveoo1970]

I'm guessing this is the right area to post this...

After being in this hobby for 30+ years I’m now mostly looking for a good massage in a place with easy parking and a hand job or CBJ. I use to see more GFE experiences but have stopped. I got a call from a young lady, probably in her early 30’s, whom I met when I did the GFE sessions. She’s touring and working in Manhattan. She wanted me to spend the night. I’m almost 60 and enjoy sex with my wife not sure why I want to spend the night with a young provider but it’s hard to refuse a freebie. Even with my reservations I made arraignments at work and my wife knew I would be working through the night.

I show up to the hotel slightly before 11 and hang out in the lobby wondering why I’m there. She comes down after a few minutes to tell me she wanted to go to a bar. I’m not too happy about it because I rarely stay up past midnight now. So we head to a bar and she wants to role play being strangers and we hook up in the bar. Again I’m wondering to myself what the fuck am I doing here? She’s gorgeous and I go with it because my brain is in my pants. She tells me to go into the bar first so I do still wondering why I’m doing this. We spend about a half hour at the bar and it’s fun but I’d prefer to have just spent the time in her room. We get to her room and it’s now it’s after midnight. We shower together and move to the bed. After we’re done I just want to sleep, it’s really late for me. She wants to cuddle for a while and then she is texting with people. She’s considerate and turns off the lights while texting but she’s constantly giggling. I wake up because she’s blowing me but I can’t get it up again, I just want to sleep and she understands. I check my phone and respond to a text from my wife, it’s almost 4 AM. I use the opportunity to go take a leak because I would have to soon anyway. We go back to sleep, the next thing I know is she had an alarm set for 8 AM. She says she would like to do this again some time but I hope I’ve learned and will say no but I don’t know if I’m wise enough.

Why hasn’t anyone called bullshit?

OK then… I’ll do it. I call bullshit.

This is almost everyone’s wet dream on this board. A young hot touring provider wanting to fuck your over 55 gated community ass for free!! And she’s providing the room for the night !! It’s like a scene from a James Bond film. You wait in the lobby as she makes her entrance. And then she shows you off at the bar. Did you at least buy the drinks? She paid for everything else. LOL !! what a crock of shit. But then it’s gets even better!! You have the fucking audacity to get annoyed because she wants round 2 !!??!?! And she would love to do it again…… And you hope you have the courage to say no!?!?!

That was one entertaining story. But that’s all it was. A story…..