What should I expect from an overnight stay?

#44
I was curious myself

I'm new to the hobby. If you feel you've paid and gotten your money's worth then it really doesn't matter what everyone else thinks.

Having said that, I assumed that a good chunk of an overnight is sleeping lol.
 
#46
And from what I know from a couple of providers is that they don't like doing them with guys they don't know well. They will do it because the money is good, but would rather not.
Yeap. When i get contacted for overnight session by a gentleman i had never seen before i usually offer a compromise. I would commit to 2-4 hour date with POSSIBILITY of extending it to overnight. But agree to overnight with someone you have not met? Don't really see it happening.

Lina
 
#49
Do you really think that's a "yes-or-no" question?
i guess you have a point, but if you wanted to hang out with someone after you do the deed, why not just get a girlfriend. i thought that was the whole point of getting an escort. the fact that you dont have to talk to them after
 
#51
i guess you have a point, but if you wanted to hang out with someone after you do the deed, why not just get a girlfriend. i thought that was the whole point of getting an escort. the fact that you dont have to talk to them after
Not everybody has the choice of getting a girlfriend. Lots of men would never get laid without paying, and they want the same experiences other guys have.
 
#52
I don't entirely agree with you, I think anyone can find a girlfriend, it may not be a teenager who's ass tastes like candy. But there is in fact a girl out there for everyone. Plus at the end of the overnight stay that's it. So it really isn't a girlfriend experience. To me a girlfriend experience is when you meet wit a provider and get dfk bbbj and maybe maybe daty. I don't believe it has much to do. With the amount. Of time spent with the provider
 
#53
I've done overnights 4 or 5 times and each time stayed up all night. I didn't feel comfortable leaving myself (and my wallet) vulnerable to the whims of a provider - no matter how well I thought I knew her.

Ironically, I've only succumbed to sleep with providers who I've stayed with for multiple nights, but I've only done that overseas.
 
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#54
I don't entirely agree with you, I think anyone can find a girlfriend, it may not be a teenager who's ass tastes like candy. But there is in fact a girl out there for everyone. Plus at the end of the overnight stay that's it. So it really isn't a girlfriend experience. To me a girlfriend experience is when you meet wit a provider and get dfk bbbj and maybe maybe daty. I don't believe it has much to do. With the amount. Of time spent with the provider
Bullshit. There was a survey on this board asking "how often would you get laid if you didn't see a provider?" 45% plus said either "once a month or less" or "never." Up to 17% of the adult 18-54 population hasn't had sex in the last year. (GSS, table 11). There's plenty with nobody.
 
#55
Both valid points

Bullshit. There was a survey on this board asking "how often would you get laid if you didn't see a provider?" 45% plus said either "once a month or less" or "never." Up to 17% of the adult 18-54 population hasn't had sex in the last year. (GSS, table 11). There's plenty with nobody.
Eventhough I think this is close to being off-topic, I'm with Bandaid on this one. In fact, I believe I read somewhere on UG about a guy who hasn't had sex with his wife for years (stayed with her because of the kid(s) and financial reasons, cheaper to stay married than get divorced in other words). So having a girlfriend isn't always doable (no pun intended) for one reason or another.

Having said that, I do agree that one of the benefits of seeing a provider is not having to spend more time with her than necessary.
 
#56
Bullshit. There was a survey on this board asking "how often would you get laid if you didn't see a provider?" 45% plus said either "once a month or less" or "never." Up to 17% of the adult 18-54 population hasn't had sex in the last year. (GSS, table 11). There's plenty with nobody.
Ok, maybe your right. Perhaps a married mans best bet for sex is an escort. However that wasn't the point I was makikng. Someone said that an overnight was because some people can't get girlfriends and want to know what it would be like. So, if you were married then you were probably I imagine dating your wife if not at least for a little while so you did ion fact have a girl friend experience. On another note, if you were a married man with kids it may be kinda tough to swing an overnight stay with an escort no?
 
#57
Kittyhawk said, "Having said that, I do agree that one of the benefits of seeing a provider is not having to spend more time with her than necessary."

Most guys would agree with you, even those who do book overnights. OTOH, enough guys want that experience at least sometimes to make it a part of the business.

cjb said, "Someone said that an overnight was because some people can't get girlfriends and want to know what it would be like. So, if you were married then you were probably I imagine dating your wife if not at least for a little while so you did ion fact have a girl friend experience. On another note, if you were a married man with kids it may be kinda tough to swing an overnight stay with an escort no? "

I'm the one who said guys who didn't have overnight experiences in their lives (no wife or SO) were likely to get overnights. There's a significant number of virgins in their 30s and 40s. Married guys aren't likely to get overnights, I wouldn't think.

It was the "everyone can get a girlfriend" thing I objected to, because it's flat not true.
 
#58
I've done a few overnights and even a couple "all dayers". Each one was very unique and different in its own way just like the men I spent the time with. I wouldn't recommend spending that much time with someone you've never met. Meeting for a shorter time before hand is a great idea.

Do make sure you discuss what you want to include in your overnight experience.. that is also why its a wonderful idea to session before hand.

I love overnights/all day appointments! :)
 
#59
overnighters elsewhere in the world

Depends where you go.

In Dubai over nights are common. Usually cost between $400 and $1,000 depending on the lady and the experience of the customer. (Normally 2 to 4 times hourly rate)

A couple words of wisdom.

Empty the mini bar into the hotel safe.
Lock up all valuables in safe as well.
Call the front desk and have them turn off international calling.

If you read the boards for Dubai you will see stories of people getting up in the morning, wallet and watches missing, bar emptied at high hotel prices and when they check out the phone bill to China, or where ever is huge.

As always look at the local boards and pick someone reviewed and recommended by several people with a history of posts on a site.

Best encounter I have had was last New Year. Had a girl for over 72 hours and 24 of these she had a friend over. Cost was AED 6000 for full time girl ( about $US 1670) and AED 2000 for the one day girl ($US 560 or so). Was as much sex as I could handle and the girls would play with each other while I recharged.

I had met the long time girl a couple times before and was comfortable with her and she with me. We also went sightseeing and to a couple restaurants during the date while I recharged.
 
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