What should I expect from an overnight stay?

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I am thinking about doing something special and would like to know what I should I expect if I contract a provider for an overnight stay? Should I expect unlimited cups? Or should I expect more of a gfe?

theapprentice
 
#2
Booking an overnight stay as the first encounter with a provider is a dumb idea, in my opinion. Much better would be to meet someone for a few times, starting with an hour, and transitioning up to a 2 or 3-hour session. That way you can assess whether you are compatible with each other during the "down times". The last thing you want is to pay the hefty overnight fee and then be wishing she was leaving after the first hour.
 
#3
Before you invite someone over for an overnight, you should know her fairly well.

Because --

When you wake in the morning, she may be gone and also all your money and valubles.
 
#4
Apprentice

Rule # 1 when dealing with providers. You pay good money not only to have sex with them, but you pay them to leave.

Rule# 2 never, ever have a sleep-over. There is absotlutly no fun when you are sleeping and the clock is ticking

Rule# 3 You ain't gonna get any points having her overnight. You are not impressing her or anyone else for that matter.
 
#5
Jordan said:
Apprentice

Rule # 1 when dealing with providers. You pay good money not only to have sex with them, but you pay them to leave.......
You're right on with that comment. I could see stretching it a couple of extra hours if she was really special and did some really special things - like after the second round, gives you a relaxing massage while you are waiting for the 6 pack of beer and pizza she ordered to be delivered which you both could share while watching a bootleg copy of the next Bruce Willis DVD..

Anything less than that, for the time and money you are spending, you might as well get a girlfriend.
 
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theapprentice said:
I am thinking about doing something special and would like to know what I should I expect if I contract a provider for an overnight stay? Should I expect unlimited cups? Or should I expect more of a gfe?

theapprentice
You should get exactly what you negotiated for before the evening commences. To leave such points of service to chance, when putting out the kind of money an overnight is apt to mean, is not a good idea.

So, over-nights take place one of two ways.

1) With someone you know fairly well, and thus have established what an all night session with her would be like. Though you still talk and clarify you intentions, wants, wishes, to her before you agree to the appointment. It is fairer for both of you as both know what to expect.

2) When you don't know the woman well, or at all, meet for drinks before hand. Most women will not want to discuss specific details of a session on the phone, or in electronic mail/chat. Meet in a public place, purchase her dinner/drinks, and discuss it in detail. If everyone is on the same page, retire to a local motel/hotel.
 

franca

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Oh for goodness sakes! If he wants to book an escort to stay overnight, he should do that. Why do people have to go on about how stupid it is to book an overnight date? Some people like pistachio.

To apprentice:

Expect a relaxing evening with dinner at a nice restaurant, plenty of time bouncing around nekkid, a half-way decent night's sleep, and hopefully, some more nookie before she gets dressed and leaves (since that's the probably the reason you want to wake up next to her). If you want more social time out, say the theatre or a club or whatever, that is something you should arrange, and let her know. Not many escorts would expect that from a date.

The details beyond that aren't really predictable. If she can't at least provide standard escorting services, then she shouldn't be in the business. That's why you do a little research on her and communicate your plans to her before booking.
 
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donquixote04 said:
Booking an overnight stay as the first encounter with a provider is a dumb idea, in my opinion. Much better would be to meet someone for a few times, starting with an hour, and transitioning up to a 2 or 3-hour session. That way you can assess whether you are compatible with each other during the "down times". The last thing you want is to pay the hefty overnight fee and then be wishing she was leaving after the first hour.
Outstanding advice, which I wish I had known years ago when I booked my first overnight with someone I had never seen previously.
 
#13
Jordan said:
Apprentice

Rule # 1 when dealing with providers. You pay good money not only to have sex with them, but you pay them to leave.

Rule# 2 never, ever have a sleep-over. There is absotlutly no fun when you are sleeping and the clock is ticking

Actually even though I was thinking about an overnight stay, I really wasn't thinking about getting any sleep. ;)

Rule# 3 You ain't gonna get any points having her overnight. You are not impressing her or anyone else for that matter.

Besides my cash possibly making an impression in her purse I really don't think that I would make any kind of impression. I kind of look at providers as doing a job just like any other job: banker, teacher, lawyer, construction worker, custodian, store clerk. Therefore, besides making a provider somewhat richer, I don't think I would really think I would impress her.

The Apprentice

PS
Thank you for your insight.
 
#14
franca said:
Oh for goodness sakes! If he wants to book an escort to stay overnight, he should do that. Why do people have to go on about how stupid it is to book an overnight date? Some people like pistachio.

To apprentice:

Expect a relaxing evening with dinner at a nice restaurant, plenty of time bouncing around nekkid, a half-way decent night's sleep, and hopefully, some more nookie before she gets dressed and leaves (since that's the probably the reason you want to wake up next to her). If you want more social time out, say the theatre or a club or whatever, that is something you should arrange, and let her know. Not many escorts would expect that from a date.

The details beyond that aren't really predictable. If she can't at least provide standard escorting services, then she shouldn't be in the business. That's why you do a little research on her and communicate your plans to her before booking.

Firstly, Franca thank you for replying to my post. I really do appreciate getting the perspective of a provider. I really don't think that this is what I am looking for. I'm not looking for a 'romantic date.' In other words going out to dinner sounds really fun but I don't think that I would pay such a high price for going out on a date when I could probably do that for much less (and even possibly go dutch at that). As for sleep, I think that I wouldn't need much sleep either.

What I did have in mind was more along the lines of an 8hr marathon of tantric/porn star action (by the way I don't neccessarily mean pse, though if it was offered...). Preferably in a nice hotel room.

The Apprentice
 
#15
By the way when I refer to porn star action I mean wearing funky 1970 clothes and listening to disco music. And when I refer to tantric, I mean the yoga deep breathing excercise used to prolong life. Not to be misconstrued by anyone.

The Apprentice
 
#16
By the way when I refer to porn star action I mean wearing funky 1970 clothes and listening to disco music. And when I refer to tantric, I mean the yoga deep breathing excercise used to prolong life. Not to be misconstrued by anyone.

The Apprentice
 
#17
I’ve skimmed through this thread and have developed a burning question. I know this may be a digression, but I do wish to ask the question. Does anyone develop a relationship with a favorite provider to the point where she is willing to stay over night of her own accord? Or rather, you pay for an hour of her time, but she stays longer, possibly staying for the night at no additional charge due to her desire to be in your company. To be honest, I have experienced this on two occasions. In one case no additional sex happened, in another we did it till we couldn’t walk anymore.

I’ve always feared paying for an overnight session would make my wallet very light, and her purse a lot heavier. Besides, if we do not know each other well, it will get very uncomfortable fast. Please note that this post is in no way a criticism of others, it is just a question on why one chooses one approach over another.

Regards,

Pops
 
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theapprentice said:
What I did have in mind was more along the lines of an 8hr marathon of tantric/porn star action (by the way I don't neccessarily mean pse, though if it was offered...). Preferably in a nice hotel room.
In that case, I have three words for you:

Not gonna happen.
 
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donquixote04 said:
Booking an overnight stay as the first encounter with a provider is a dumb idea, in my opinion. Much better would be to meet someone for a few times, starting with an hour, and transitioning up to a 2 or 3-hour session. That way you can assess whether you are compatible with each other during the "down times". The last thing you want is to pay the hefty overnight fee and then be wishing she was leaving after the first hour.
And from what I know from a couple of providers is that they don't like doing them with guys they don't know well. They will do it because the money is good, but would rather not.

I happen to enjoy them and do them as often as I can, but I pretty much use CL girls so they tend to be cheaper and look at it more like a hook-up session v. an overnight appointment.
 
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