The last dinner with mine I had no idea it was forever. Haunts me to this day that she was stalked and harrassed away by a POS.
Even sent me a text saying she would see me in about 2 weeks. That was 2 1/2 years ago and ran into her once on a major road a year later both pulled over and spoke for about 20 minutes.
The most important thing I lost was a friend that I protected for months from him and it was too much when he broke her car windows.
I know where he lives, I know where he works (or at least worked), I know what he looks like (I protected her from a table away. Even had to cut him off pulling out of the parking lot because he went to go the same way