Some providers use em simply to set a time and place for an appointment. As many have pointed out, the sheer volume of em communications prohibits them from doing much else. And fear of LE keeps many from discussing details, from their rate to activities that may take place during the session in the em. A couple of em's back and forth and the date is set, no further communication is required.
Some use em to try and learn a little about their prospective client. His personality, likes and dislikes. Most importantly, his expectations. Then they gauge whether or not to go forward with the date (and vice versa, the hobbyist will decide whether she's someone he wants to see).
Others, still, make more creative use of em. I've set up sessions with traveling providers a few weeks in advance. Every couple of days they'll send me a teasing communication simply as a reminder of the appointment. The back and forth also serves almost as a little foreplay, a little titillation. And, from the provider's perspective, another way of trying to ensure the hobbyist will show up for his appointment.
I know some hobbyists hate this, however, feeling that it's an unnecessary invasion of their privacy, verging on dangerous. They don't want their ***** address lingering around on someone's computer. And they don't want to have to explain away an em from "hot4u" (or whomever) in their inbox.
Thoughts? Comments?
Some use em to try and learn a little about their prospective client. His personality, likes and dislikes. Most importantly, his expectations. Then they gauge whether or not to go forward with the date (and vice versa, the hobbyist will decide whether she's someone he wants to see).
Others, still, make more creative use of em. I've set up sessions with traveling providers a few weeks in advance. Every couple of days they'll send me a teasing communication simply as a reminder of the appointment. The back and forth also serves almost as a little foreplay, a little titillation. And, from the provider's perspective, another way of trying to ensure the hobbyist will show up for his appointment.
I know some hobbyists hate this, however, feeling that it's an unnecessary invasion of their privacy, verging on dangerous. They don't want their ***** address lingering around on someone's computer. And they don't want to have to explain away an em from "hot4u" (or whomever) in their inbox.
Thoughts? Comments?
