Alas, we tried that for a very long time and found that there were 2 types of female posters: those which really wanted to post on the board, and those who wanted free advertising. We had hoped that it wasn't the case, and that women who came here would post and take advantage of A free ad..... but it just did not work that way. there were dozens of women who posted free ads, got business, came back and posted more free ads without ever taking out a paid ad OR adding anything to any discussions, and then when they were told that they needed to read the rules and pointed out that the free ad was a one time thing, they simply said "all I want is free advertising, so please remove me from your site".
If all they really want to do is say hello, that gets done all the time. But that isn't even really necessary: all anyone needs to do is join in on the discussions. But were are out of the business of providing free advertising because it just doesn't work. On a side note, we gaurantee our advertsiing if an advertiser comes on and actually supports their ad with posting. In other words, if someone pays for an ad, actually posts on the board regularly, and still doesn't get any calls, we will continue to run the ad without charging until they get their $ worth. but we simply got burned too many times the other way.