Tinder success stories?

I have been working Snapchat over the holidays - just to get
a feel for the site.

So far it seems like one giant feeder for OF and they get quite
defensive when I refuse to sign up.

Maybe I should get off the Internet and get my ass to the gym sounds
like that has much more potential.
 
how do the some of you guys approach a woman at the gym? I was told long ago that it's the worst place to try to pick up a woman cause they are there to not be distracted from their workouts. I've had a mental block about it ever since and don't know the right way to make a move...
 

U_N_I_2nite

Reformed offender
Another great spot to pick up EASY pussy is a thrift stores. I had luck in the one in Baldwin, it shares a parking lot with Best Buy.
You know they looking for deals, and they are low on funds. You come in flirt a little, if you feel like something can happen, offer to get coffee or something quick, try your best not to judge or say something insulting. Try to fuck that day or get a bj in your car. You’ll be surprise on who you might meet.
 
Another great spot to pick up EASY pussy is a thrift stores. I had luck in the one in Baldwin, it shares a parking lot with Best Buy.
You know they looking for deals, and they are low on funds. You come in flirt a little, if you feel like something can happen, offer to get coffee or something quick, try your best not to judge or say something insulting. Try to fuck that day or get a bj in your car. You’ll be surprise on who you might meet.
Now, THAT makes perfect sense and sounds like parking lot sex to me. Now, I am going to be a part-time thrifter.........
 
how do the some of you guys approach a woman at the gym? I was told long ago that it's the worst place to try to pick up a woman cause they are there to not be distracted from their workouts. I've had a mental block about it ever since and don't know the right way to make a move...

In my experience it’s a long game at the gym. If you show up once, and hit on the women mid workout, probably not gonna work. What’s worked for me is to go to the workout classes consistently for a couple of months. Befriend the instructors- give them little tokens of gifts that aren’t obvious- like one of the young hot ones, I gave her a Sephora gift card for like $25, said I got it as a gift and had no idea what it was. Now all of a sudden I’m her favorite, and she knows my name and calls it out in the class. Boom. Instant social validation. After some consistency establishing yourself you can start interacting with the women. Start with the fatties. Seriously. Ignore the hot ones. High five them, ask their names, introduce yourself. Some of them may end up turning hot at one point, and if you’re like me and like some variety, that’s super low hanging fruit. What it also does is further validates you as someone not looking to hit on women who definitely have their guard up at these places, even though they’re half naked in spandex. 2 months in, you should be a. In good enough shape to do the workout well, and b. Have enough social validation in the community. At f45 they pair you up, so if you are smart, position yourself before the class so you’ll get paired with milfy. Before you start the class quickly offer your hand and say “hey I’m DJme123” nice to meet you. Make sure you catch her name. When the workouts over, her endorphins are flaring, make sure you fist bump her and say great workout. Don’t try to hit on her right then and there. What i do is I’ll linger in the lobby area “on my phone” and then innocently follow milfy out the door. That’s when you make the move. Say “ hey milfy, I was gonna grab a cup of coffee and get some protein at Starbucks, can I buy you one?
No means no, and maybe she’s not interested or married or whatever. But so far I’m 3 for 3. We go to Starbucks, get coffee, and then I steer the discussion to divorce and dating and how hard it is to meet good people, and how lonely it can be. The first time, milfy asked me if I’d like to come by her house (she’s divorced kids are at school) to look at a cabinet door that wouldn’t stay closed. We fucked on the kitchen counter. The second and third Milfys went similarly with Starbucks with one and we the diner for eggs with the other. I didn’t go to their house like the first, but got their numbers. Text game, emphasizing loneliness of divorce, stuff like that. This is fairly new to me, and I do worry that milfy 1 will catch feels. The other 2 are barracudas and I’m a means to an end.
Also key is don’t make it obvious or akward in the classes. They’re regulars, and I think 2 and 3 know about each other.

hope this helps
 

billyS

Reign of Terror
In my experience it’s a long game at the gym. If you show up once, and hit on the women mid workout, probably not gonna work. What’s worked for me is to go to the workout classes consistently for a couple of months. Befriend the instructors- give them little tokens of gifts that aren’t obvious- like one of the young hot ones, I gave her a Sephora gift card for like $25, said I got it as a gift and had no idea what it was. Now all of a sudden I’m her favorite, and she knows my name and calls it out in the class. Boom. Instant social validation. After some consistency establishing yourself you can start interacting with the women. Start with the fatties. Seriously. Ignore the hot ones. High five them, ask their names, introduce yourself. Some of them may end up turning hot at one point, and if you’re like me and like some variety, that’s super low hanging fruit. What it also does is further validates you as someone not looking to hit on women who definitely have their guard up at these places, even though they’re half naked in spandex. 2 months in, you should be a. In good enough shape to do the workout well, and b. Have enough social validation in the community. At f45 they pair you up, so if you are smart, position yourself before the class so you’ll get paired with milfy. Before you start the class quickly offer your hand and say “hey I’m DJme123” nice to meet you. Make sure you catch her name. When the workouts over, her endorphins are flaring, make sure you fist bump her and say great workout. Don’t try to hit on her right then and there. What i do is I’ll linger in the lobby area “on my phone” and then innocently follow milfy out the door. That’s when you make the move. Say “ hey milfy, I was gonna grab a cup of coffee and get some protein at Starbucks, can I buy you one?
No means no, and maybe she’s not interested or married or whatever. But so far I’m 3 for 3. We go to Starbucks, get coffee, and then I steer the discussion to divorce and dating and how hard it is to meet good people, and how lonely it can be. The first time, milfy asked me if I’d like to come by her house (she’s divorced kids are at school) to look at a cabinet door that wouldn’t stay closed. We fucked on the kitchen counter. The second and third Milfys went similarly with Starbucks with one and we the diner for eggs with the other. I didn’t go to their house like the first, but got their numbers. Text game, emphasizing loneliness of divorce, stuff like that. This is fairly new to me, and I do worry that milfy 1 will catch feels. The other 2 are barracudas and I’m a means to an end.
Also key is don’t make it obvious or akward in the classes. They’re regulars, and I think 2 and 3 know about each other.

hope this helps
Damn, you're a man with a plan!

I was just going to offer some simple advice like don't be a creep and stare at them, especially when they are actually lifting weights.
Don't follow them around the gym.

There will be chances to make eye contact naturally, and when that happens give them a little smile (not a big phoney shit eating grin) and if they smile back that usually means you might have a shot.

Also sometimes they might choose you. See if if they are checking you out or using equipment that gives them a view of you working out.
When this is the case I try to see her pattern and then wind up near her which gives me a chance for small talk. It she is receptive then shoot your shot

The same goes for supermarkets. Most of the time they will choose you. They will give you a little smile, make sure they are coming up and isle where they can make eye contact. Just smile back and later make eye contact and say hi.

Make sure you don't look like a slob, wear clothes that flatter you.
 
Another great spot to pick up EASY pussy is a thrift stores. I had luck in the one in Baldwin, it shares a parking lot with Best Buy.
You know they looking for deals, and they are low on funds. You come in flirt a little, if you feel like something can happen, offer to get coffee or something quick, try your best not to judge or say something insulting. Try to fuck that day or get a bj in your car. You’ll be surprise on who you might meet.
Thats funny because over the years I have had hipster girls I met on IG meet me at thrift stores for a first ‘date’ and either have them blowing me that day or fucking in a nearby motel or our cars.
 
I actually have been using snapchat indirectly with some success.

Once I got over the initial wave of scammers/bots pitching their Onlyfans
it finally settled down.

I uploaded some basic photo content and added a bunch of friends to
increase the snap score so it would not look like a scam account.

I have had a handful of mostly younger (early 20s) providers put their snap in
their classified posts and I checked their account and pics before a meetup.

It actually kind of helped having normal pics available online to help filter out
some of the scams.
 
Anyone having luck on Tinder? I got blocked a couple years ago, VOIPs won't work but I think you can rent a non voip cell number. Just wondering if it's worth it.
 

U_N_I_2nite

Reformed offender
Anyone having luck on Tinder? I got blocked a couple years ago, VOIPs won't work but I think you can rent a non voip cell number. Just wondering if it's worth it.
Tinder and bumble I definitely had luck. I would get one to four matches a week ( I’m not 6 feet, and I don’t have a 6 pack).
I had to get off of there, because it affects my mood, one week I didn’t get any matches, I felt less like myself. The dopamine, creating a feeling of pleasure and reward.

Most of these women these days, just want a guy to take care of all bills and then they’ll open their legs. The new generation of prostitution. Doing this, feeling do occur but once you get to know an individual you’ll see they are better off being single. Just have fun and fuck them.
 
Tinder and bumble I definitely had luck. I would get one to four matches a week ( I’m not 6 feet, and I don’t have a 6 pack).
I had to get off of there, because it affects my mood, one week I didn’t get any matches, I felt less like myself. The dopamine, creating a feeling of pleasure and reward.

Most of these women these days, just want a guy to take care of all bills and then they’ll open their legs. The new generation of prostitution. Doing this, feeling do occur but once you get to know an individual you’ll see they are better off being single. Just have fun and fuck them.
I didn't have such great results, I'm married so I can't put real photos up and I can't be seen dining out with a woman. I'll give it another shot
 

U_N_I_2nite

Reformed offender
I didn't have such great results, I'm married so I can't put real photos up and I can't be seen dining out with a woman. I'll give it another shot
I had the best experience with bumble. Just put 3 pictures up of yourself (cover your face or use someone’s picture that looks like you.
Use 1 or 2 smooth lines “ I’m the man that makes you feel butterflies in your stomach ” something stupid like that.

Good luck, Let us know how goes.
 
I had the best experience with bumble. Just put 3 pictures up of yourself (cover your face or use someone’s picture that looks like you.
Use 1 or 2 smooth lines “ I’m the man that makes you feel butterflies in your stomach ” something stupid like that.

Good luck, Let us know how goes.
I gotta try bumble. Tinder is a goldmine in places like DR and Colombia. It's tougher in U.S. but can work just takes more swiping for sure. And of course in DR and Colombia many or almost all of those girls are looking for money from the guy. In the U.S. you can smash for dinner and being a therapist or a mentor more easily but a lot of work at times.

Facebook dating is better than tinder if you are really looking to fuck for free or a dinner etc and quicker and more success rate.
 

U_N_I_2nite

Reformed offender
I gotta try bumble. Tinder is a goldmine in places like DR and Colombia. It's tougher in U.S. but can work just takes more swiping for sure. And of course in DR and Colombia many or almost all of those girls are looking for money from the guy. In the U.S. you can smash for dinner and being a therapist or a mentor more easily but a lot of work at times.

Facebook dating is better than tinder if you are really looking to fuck for free or a dinner etc and quicker and more success rate.
I never used dating apps outside the country. I never even thought about it. I can usually talk to a lady anywhere and feel if I’m going to get lucky or not.

I've heard amazing tales about dating and fucking on Facebook. I've heard about a guy who hooked up on Facebook Marketplace. To cut a long tale short, He searched for women who were selling wedding gowns, but when he found one, he filtered the dress size to be little or had a lot of furniture because these women are typically broken up and hates their ex. He turned into the fuck dude. He justifies it by saying that he is assisting a cousin or acquaintance in purchasing a dress.
 
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