I think the whole "dating in the business" thread is fascinating. For about 15 years it seemed that every girl I met was a lesbian. My best (dyke) friend would say I must have been a lesbian in a former life, the way they would be drawn to me. It was odd - lots of good friendships, rarely any sexual tension.
Then I met a girl who worked in a massage parlor - and suddenly everyone I met seemed to be in the business. A few years ago I met a young woman in the city who was spectacularly beautiful, beyond compare, had some artistic job. Two years later I respond to an in call ad for a very expensive woman. I turn up, she opens the door and "Holy Fuck!" we look and laugh. It was like it was meant to be. My best friend today works in porn and we have this brother sister thing that was there as soon as we met.
The irony is that I am a banker, with a very sober day job, as well as devoutly religious. It's funny when these different parts of ourselves can seem to hold real contradictions.
I've never dated someone in the business. My partner is an accountant, very conservative and would never in a million years believe about my hobby.