Stripping wants to move with me how do I deal with it

#22
Having dated girls who have done porn and stripped I will tell you it’s not easy from a human instinct of that natural jealously trait but I will tell you I went into from the start with a mind state of expectation & what the relationship was all about. Others have noted much like anyone else they need relationships outside of their sex work but most of them are incapable of that mentally. They were more for fun flings - movie scenario type shit that fueled artistic inspiration often with wild & good sex. I’m a pretty fucked up person so there is a bond with them in a way.
Like others have said what did you expect? Your on monger board and in your limited posts here have seemed to center around reviewing the crystal cafe - is that where she worked? God no I hope not lol

Anyway, I don’t think it would be against the board rules to post the club she works at, maybe give us a review? Might as well at this point, she may have already fucked & sucked half the board from what your saying.

All seriousness, I hope things get better with the wife & if not do what has to be done to move one. If you do have kids then you have a lot more to think about overall. Godspeed brother.
 
#26
She finally admitted that she been jerking off guys bj and FS in the vip and lap dance room. I am done
This was complicated from the get-go your both being married and her being a stripper to boot. The way I see it is you both all knew that. And you both accepted it for 4 years and stay together for whatever that means. But re "She finally admitted" not sure how to read that. Admitted in the sense the subject never came up and she finally talked about it and/or you finally asked her or admitted in the sense that she lied about it in the past?
 

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#27
Almost everyone I dated over the last 35 years was a working girl. If we were out socially and they got a work call I was usually pretty adamant that they take it because I wasn't going to be responsible for the lost income. OTOH if we had social plans which they cancelled to hang out with someone else I would get pissed off because odds are I had cancelled something to make time for them.
 
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#28
Just my two cents if the stripper is giving BJ's and fucking them for work I would be like that's cool. Just on the other hand don't expect me to just fuck you and I am going to fuck other chicks. Once that is clear you can work out the details like not bring the extra activities at home etc. Or better yet maybe she will bring home one of her co workers.
 
#29
Almost everyone I dated over the last 35 years was a working girl. If we were out socially and they got a work call I was usually pretty adamant that they take it because I wasn't going to be responsible for the lost income. OTOH if we had social plans which they cancelled to hang out with someone else I would get pissed off because odds are I had cancelled something to make time for them.
Were you ever really into any of them emotionally??

I could do what you're describing but not for someone I'm falling for.
 
#30
Just my two cents if the stripper is giving BJ's and fucking them for work I would be like that's cool. Just on the other hand don't expect me to just fuck you and I am going to fuck other chicks. Once that is clear you can work out the details like not bring the extra activities at home etc. Or better yet maybe she will bring home one of her co workers.
I would be fine if she had to work so long as she could send in a pinch hitter if I was horny.. lol.
 
#31
Seriously if it was me I’d have no problem being in a relationship with a working girl for a long period of time. Especially if they maintaining you don’t bite the hands that feeds you. But also I’d never marry any of these woman that’s where the relationship will end if that idea of marriage ever comes in there head and they won’t back off then it’s time to dip. But I really wouldn’t mind having a for sure thing when I have blue balls or someone cancels on me I always got somewhere to go and bust a nut.
 
#35
So if you are unhappy with your marriage and have no kids I think it's time to move in with the stripper. Just make it clear she is not the only one you are going to stick your dick in as long as she is doing what she is doing. You may want to even get her to bring someone home for like a weekly or monthly threesome.
 
#36
So if you are unhappy with your marriage and have no kids I think it's time to move in with the stripper. Just make it clear she is not the only one you are going to stick your dick in as long as she is doing what she is doing. You may want to even get her to bring someone home for like a weekly or monthly threesome.
I an assuming that by "get her to bring someone home for like a weekly or monthly threesome" you do not mean one of her customers.
Ahem, to quote a lime from Seinfeld "Not that there's anything wrong with that".
 
#38
You originally said your situation sounds like a disaster but it sounds like you're both doing just fine just perhaps you never went into details with her until recently about activities even though you may have guessed them. I'm in limbo right now with my ATF of about 4 years done lots together meeting multiple times a week etc. Neither of us is married and she hasn't asked to move in with me and if she came clean I might be surprised what she tells me but for now I'm still ok if what I think is occurring is given arrangements has given me a new perspective on things I may not have been ok with even 5 years ago. Is that good enough in your case given the whole full picture of everything?
 
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