Having dated girls who have done porn and stripped I will tell you it’s not easy from a human instinct of that natural jealously trait but I will tell you I went into from the start with a mind state of expectation & what the relationship was all about. Others have noted much like anyone else they need relationships outside of their sex work but most of them are incapable of that mentally. They were more for fun flings - movie scenario type shit that fueled artistic inspiration often with wild & good sex. I’m a pretty fucked up person so there is a bond with them in a way.
Like others have said what did you expect? Your on monger board and in your limited posts here have seemed to center around reviewing the crystal cafe - is that where she worked? God no I hope not lol
Anyway, I don’t think it would be against the board rules to post the club she works at, maybe give us a review? Might as well at this point, she may have already fucked & sucked half the board from what your saying.
All seriousness, I hope things get better with the wife & if not do what has to be done to move one. If you do have kids then you have a lot more to think about overall. Godspeed brother.