Maybe you all can help me out with a reoccuring problem I have at work. It goes something like this:
I meet customer, we get along really, really well. Said customer pays me really, really well. Continues visiting the club for a few weeks, visits become more frequent, I'm thinking "this is great!" when suddenly, and without warning, they cross that fine line between being an ideal customer and bugging the shit out of me for an outside meeting which I have zero interest in. The problem lies in my inability to salvage their wonderful customer-ness while gently thwarting their attempts to date me. I always end up either completely alienating them or accidentally giving them my number or ***** address when I'm drunk. (which, as you can well imagine, is problematic for me.) Why oh why can't I maintain a healthy balance? Does anyone have any suggestions? I desperately need some good regulars who aren't so disillusioned to think they have boyfriend potential. I'm sorry if this sounds cold hearted, but it's really not. I'm really a very nice girl whose just trying to to make a living in as uncomplicated a manner as possible.
I meet customer, we get along really, really well. Said customer pays me really, really well. Continues visiting the club for a few weeks, visits become more frequent, I'm thinking "this is great!" when suddenly, and without warning, they cross that fine line between being an ideal customer and bugging the shit out of me for an outside meeting which I have zero interest in. The problem lies in my inability to salvage their wonderful customer-ness while gently thwarting their attempts to date me. I always end up either completely alienating them or accidentally giving them my number or ***** address when I'm drunk. (which, as you can well imagine, is problematic for me.) Why oh why can't I maintain a healthy balance? Does anyone have any suggestions? I desperately need some good regulars who aren't so disillusioned to think they have boyfriend potential. I'm sorry if this sounds cold hearted, but it's really not. I'm really a very nice girl whose just trying to to make a living in as uncomplicated a manner as possible.