Sex drive.

#21
Asking sincerely, do you jo a lot also? I find that when I jo a lot (and I have a bad habit of edging for a couple hours) I feel the need to monger. Just curious if that adds to it for you.
Answering sincerely, no. I respect the means to an end, but I'm not a big fan. I can watch porn for an hour, and not touch my junk once. I did when i was younger, all the time, but I'm probably a bit older than ppl think. My philosophy is, if i can get the poison out for 40 to 60 bucks, I'd rather do that 4-6 days/nights a week, if scheduling allows. I feel at this juncture in life, I've earned the right to not have to jerk myself off anymore, lol.
 
#22
Was about to post about this. Yes, the organism is shutting down and saving itself for better days. If I find some good porn, I may jerk off once a week but even looking for the porn seems pointless. I've seen providers with masks three times since all of this started and the experiences were lame. I'm beginning, little by little, to reactivate areas of my life that I had been neglecting. My cravings had always come first but less so now. Earlier in the pandemic, I'd been checking in with my providers to see if they were ok and, tbh, to keep the connection alive. Now I'm more concerned with staying on top of my obligations. Assuming the pandemic reaches the point where we're not all wearing masks, I think I will be more selective about whom I see.
 
#23
Asking sincerely, do you jo a lot also? I find that when I jo a lot (and I have a bad habit of edging for a couple hours) I feel the need to monger. Just curious if that adds to it for you.
Edging is fun and, if you can hold off, it's like foreplay to a provider session. But it requires privacy and, for me, knowing that I'm not just using it to procrastinate in more important areas of my life which has been the case in the past.
 
#24
Answering sincerely, no. I respect the means to an end, but I'm not a big fan. I can watch porn for an hour, and not touch my junk once. I did when i was younger, all the time, but I'm probably a bit older than ppl think. My philosophy is, if i can get the poison out for 40 to 60 bucks, I'd rather do that 4-6 days/nights a week, if scheduling allows. I feel at this juncture in life, I've earned the right to not have to jerk myself off anymore, lol.
Someone pointed out that jerking off for its own sake is great (who can do it better than we do?) but jerking off as a substitute for screwing is pitiful.
 
#25
Definitely find the more i get the more i need. Stress is a big part. Good mood 2x a day 7 days. Stress then only
once a week or longer....then bam back to excess. But i def get really pissed off when i dont and dont realize why lol
There's a saying in Italian: l'appetito viene mangiando which translates to "your appetite comes by eating".
 
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