Jenny:
I agree with you again on this one, but have had some different experiences on it. First off, most people that you kiss have kissed other people, and have had sex with other people regardless of whether they are a provider or not. Most people are not virgins when you first meet them.
The majority of my hobbying experience has been going to an MP for a one hour massage and nice HR. I have had a few FS appointments with independent providers, but for the most part I am an MP guy. The FS sessions I have had have been fairly business like and professional. Although I have had enjoyed those sessions, there was no kissing at all, and it was not a GFE type encounter.
It was only when I encountered this board that I learned of GFE and DFK. I thought it was a golden rule that provider's do not kiss, and I did not have any interest in kissing based on the issues you posted above. I did go to an MP that I had found on this board, and the experience was incredibly romantic and sensual.
It was only a massage with HR, it was not FS, but it was extremely sensual, and I was so turned on that I grabbed the girl I was with and we did some very intense DFK. I may have been the 100th guy that she kissed that day, but it was so erotic, and I was so turned on, that the DFK was a natural progression. The resulting HR was one of the most intense and satisfying experiences that I have had. You can check a full review and description of this session if you want under the thread "Red Square."
You do make some valid points and concerns, but in the heat of the moment I am going to take the DFK if it is there.
Abear