Providers who offer Raw/Bare - how do you decide to partake.
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In that case ignorance might be bliss.
Some offer bare right off the bat and even advertise it.
I suppose those are the ones you skip over.
Some offer bare to a customer they are attracted to so he keeps coming back.
Some offer bare to long time customers.
Some offer bare to return a favor for a shill review.
Some offer bare on a day they are really horny
Her: "yeah I don't know what happened, I was just really horny that day"
So where do you draw the line?
Some offer bare right off the bat and even advertise it.
I suppose those are the ones you skip over.
Some offer bare to a customer they are attracted to so he keeps coming back.
Some offer bare to long time customers.
Some offer bare to return a favor for a shill review.
Some offer bare on a day they are really horny
Her: "yeah I don't know what happened, I was just really horny that day"
So where do you draw the line?
Laura from yuki spa and 59 salon. Very attractive lady who I saw regularly for 3 or 4 years took me by complete surprise one session. After the flip she gave a bbbj which was also a first for me with her. In all the past sessions it was always a decent rub and a very sexy nude HJ. This time after the surprise bj she slid down and put me deep inside raw. I was shocked but also caught up in the moment. She also was really loving it. It seemed very spontaneous and it was amazing. From that point on until she left for Florida we had bare sex every session and it got more intense each time. I saw her once a week for a while. She was a great girl.
If I read about it on here. Or If it’s advertised, I’ll never call them.
If she offers it on the phone or through text, I’ll just end the conversation . A great example is that chick Jackie that I started a thread on a few weeks ago.
If she tries to convince me to do it for an up charge, I’ll turn it down. I’ll finish up a little quicker. And never go back. (I rarely go back anyways.).
Instances where I have gone bare.
It I talk and somehow convince a girl on a site like POF or KIK to provide me services for cash. And I can tell l this is a new for her. Yes I will hit that bare. But that’s about it.
Have I made wrong decisions, yeah. Back when it was new to me , I definitely did. But I’ve wised up.
If you want to last a long time in the game with minimal repercussions, choose the safest path……
If she offers it on the phone or through text, I’ll just end the conversation . A great example is that chick Jackie that I started a thread on a few weeks ago.
If she tries to convince me to do it for an up charge, I’ll turn it down. I’ll finish up a little quicker. And never go back. (I rarely go back anyways.).
Instances where I have gone bare.
It I talk and somehow convince a girl on a site like POF or KIK to provide me services for cash. And I can tell l this is a new for her. Yes I will hit that bare. But that’s about it.
Have I made wrong decisions, yeah. Back when it was new to me , I definitely did. But I’ve wised up.
If you want to last a long time in the game with minimal repercussions, choose the safest path……
I can tell you that it's a difficult position to be in when 2 women start a discussion in front of a number of guys about how crazy it is that anyone does BBFS when you've been with each of them and they both just grabbed it and stuck it in uncovered without even asking you. And people are glancing at you because you are dead silent and all you can think is that everyone is wondering why you aren't saying anything.
There’s an analog to (real) sugar babies. Just like almost every woman will be paid for sex if you have the right set of additional qualities, just about every prostitute will fuck you raw under the right set of circumstances.
At first this fact surprised me, then it challenged me, and at the end it more or less bored me.
I think the end of my active whoring was somewhat coincident with my realization that I was putting so much effort into paying to get the kind of sex I wanted that it kind of defeated the point of paying.
At first this fact surprised me, then it challenged me, and at the end it more or less bored me.
I think the end of my active whoring was somewhat coincident with my realization that I was putting so much effort into paying to get the kind of sex I wanted that it kind of defeated the point of paying.
Typically I have found that those that offer raw and charge for it, typically add between $50-100 for it.
So, for the raw option with a bring your own Plan-B, the "add-on" cost for a plan-B type of contraception is a good deal in terms of pricing (an extra $10-$50). I would imagine 3-4 years ago it was probably more expensive, so it may not have been a "deal" back then
https://www.goodrx.com/conditions/e...traception-options-how-they-work-ways-to-save
https://www.walmart.com/ip/My-Choice-Emergency-Contraceptive-Tablet/509481545
So, for the raw option with a bring your own Plan-B, the "add-on" cost for a plan-B type of contraception is a good deal in terms of pricing (an extra $10-$50). I would imagine 3-4 years ago it was probably more expensive, so it may not have been a "deal" back then
https://www.goodrx.com/conditions/e...traception-options-how-they-work-ways-to-save
https://www.walmart.com/ip/My-Choice-Emergency-Contraceptive-Tablet/509481545
So comments discussing the risk of extremely risky behavior gets deleted but the stories promoting bbfs won’t get deleted, interesting. With that being, I wouldn’t trust any provider who would jeopardize their livelihood for a couple of coins especially if they promote it.Main reason why I would never frequent those Asian places or agencies. Too high volume and they raw just about anyone for a low fee.
Reason being in the past any mention of bbfs has turned into a long draw out debate about STD's and/or shaming people who participate in bbfs.
It discourages people from mentioning if they get or got it from a certain provider.
If someone wants to start a specific thread about STD's it won't be deleted and everyone can voice their opinions there.
Everything has its place.
It discourages people from mentioning if they get or got it from a certain provider.
If someone wants to start a specific thread about STD's it won't be deleted and everyone can voice their opinions there.
Everything has its place.
We agree here. They are as bad as crack head SW who I would never do raw.
When I was still going to AMPs I would do the same thing as @genius and test them to see if they would go raw and it's amazing how many would have let me for no up sale.
The last was about 5 ago a woman I reviewed on UG in Merrick, Lily.
I had her on the table, legs spread, me standing with a raw, rock hard boner from her sucking it.
I put the tip right up to her hairy hole and said "I fuck you now" and edged it to touch her lips.
She spread her legs wider and moved her hips forward and said "ok".
I backed off and covered up.
When I was still going to AMPs I would do the same thing as @genius and test them to see if they would go raw and it's amazing how many would have let me for no up sale.
The last was about 5 ago a woman I reviewed on UG in Merrick, Lily.
I had her on the table, legs spread, me standing with a raw, rock hard boner from her sucking it.
I put the tip right up to her hairy hole and said "I fuck you now" and edged it to touch her lips.
She spread her legs wider and moved her hips forward and said "ok".
I backed off and covered up.
My knee jerk answer is no, but then maybe the real answer was that one woman in particular shocked me out of my pattern. After I dated her, it was harder to enjoy the “chase” aspect.Everything seemed emptier, I guess.
I documented here:
https://utopiaguide.pl/forums/index.php?threads/the-death-of-any-illusions-about-my-sanity.13904/
I documented here:
https://utopiaguide.pl/forums/index.php?threads/the-death-of-any-illusions-about-my-sanity.13904/