As someone relatively new to the scene (I started 2 years ago and can still count the number of women I've been with on one hand), I've got a comment to make! 
Because I was new and really didn't know how to find a provider, I headed straight for the phone book (which has about 30 pages of escort ads). I asked for what I wanted and, of course, what arrived was exactly what I had asked for....well, what I asked for hit by the ugly stick about 100 times and about 30 lbs heavier. I was so nervous when she arrived that I didn't even know if it is proper to tell an outcall provider that, because she isn't what you wanted, that you are no longer are interested. So I said "what the hell" and embraced my state of mind (very horny) and closed my eyes and dove right in.
For my next experience (which was a long time after that) I decided that I would never let it up for chance again. So I headed to the internet and was happy to find that a lot of providers had no only their own picture up and detailed information, but that they also had their own webpages. From then on, I make it a rule to only go to someone (I only do incall now because I have roommates) whose picture I see first. The more pictures, the better and the more information, the better as well.
Being a new client, I don't understand how people can use escort listing in the phone book or magazines or random incall places. I mean the MOST important thing to me when I see a provider is that she fits what my mind wants...and my mind wants a very specific type of women (and a very specific type of attractiveness). For instance, I can't stand being with a women who is even slightly overweight so one of the most important things for me besides her listing her weight is seeing if that is the truth by looking at her pictures.
It almost annoys me when a provider just has one picture or has a picture from very far away. I understand the need for privacy and therefore respect it when she shadows out her face (although I do like it more when she doesn't) but I must she her full body (front and back shot) before I decide to be with her. I also really don't need nude shots - just close ups of her body.
For instance, some of the pictures on Julie's website are great but others are either blurry or else it is just too hard to make out any detail. I prefer the types of pictures that Kamasutranyc puts on their webpage much more - numerous pics with a mixture of full body and face.
Lastly, I also get annoyed when it says "call for price". I like seeing the price on the webpage (although, for LE reasons I can understand why some don't). Also, I find it a convience to e-mail the women first because I am a bit shy on the phone. E-mail first to get questions and introductions out of the way and phone second is how I like to do it.
So what does everyone else think? Is it just because I am new to this that I am totally dependent on the internet and on viewing their photos first? Does anyone else agree/disagree with me?
-BigbucksNYC
P.S. I love this board becuase we can spread out experiences and knowledge about this subject. Without it, I would be much more in the dark and would not be as satisfied as I usually am with the providers that I see.
Because I was new and really didn't know how to find a provider, I headed straight for the phone book (which has about 30 pages of escort ads). I asked for what I wanted and, of course, what arrived was exactly what I had asked for....well, what I asked for hit by the ugly stick about 100 times and about 30 lbs heavier. I was so nervous when she arrived that I didn't even know if it is proper to tell an outcall provider that, because she isn't what you wanted, that you are no longer are interested. So I said "what the hell" and embraced my state of mind (very horny) and closed my eyes and dove right in.
For my next experience (which was a long time after that) I decided that I would never let it up for chance again. So I headed to the internet and was happy to find that a lot of providers had no only their own picture up and detailed information, but that they also had their own webpages. From then on, I make it a rule to only go to someone (I only do incall now because I have roommates) whose picture I see first. The more pictures, the better and the more information, the better as well.
Being a new client, I don't understand how people can use escort listing in the phone book or magazines or random incall places. I mean the MOST important thing to me when I see a provider is that she fits what my mind wants...and my mind wants a very specific type of women (and a very specific type of attractiveness). For instance, I can't stand being with a women who is even slightly overweight so one of the most important things for me besides her listing her weight is seeing if that is the truth by looking at her pictures.
It almost annoys me when a provider just has one picture or has a picture from very far away. I understand the need for privacy and therefore respect it when she shadows out her face (although I do like it more when she doesn't) but I must she her full body (front and back shot) before I decide to be with her. I also really don't need nude shots - just close ups of her body.
For instance, some of the pictures on Julie's website are great but others are either blurry or else it is just too hard to make out any detail. I prefer the types of pictures that Kamasutranyc puts on their webpage much more - numerous pics with a mixture of full body and face.
Lastly, I also get annoyed when it says "call for price". I like seeing the price on the webpage (although, for LE reasons I can understand why some don't). Also, I find it a convience to e-mail the women first because I am a bit shy on the phone. E-mail first to get questions and introductions out of the way and phone second is how I like to do it.
So what does everyone else think? Is it just because I am new to this that I am totally dependent on the internet and on viewing their photos first? Does anyone else agree/disagree with me?
-BigbucksNYC
P.S. I love this board becuase we can spread out experiences and knowledge about this subject. Without it, I would be much more in the dark and would not be as satisfied as I usually am with the providers that I see.