I used to work with a gentleman who's father was a well known criminal defense attorney in Brooklyn and had represented many individuals who were involved in "organized crime". I asked him one day if his Dad has ever told him stories or offered advice on just general matters. His father offered this bit of sarcastic advice.."If you're ever going to ask somebody to "take care" of a problem, absolutely make sure the first person you ask will go through with it..because if they decline, and you have to ask another person...well now you have 2 problems to take care of."...
Our Secret ( or not no) Life Of Momgering
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I came into this world at age 16 with a friend, as his older brothers and cousins turned him onto it. We’d go together or share stories. He was the one person I was able to speak freely about this life. Unfortunately we went I to business together and he drugged and gambled away all our investors seed capital. That ended our friendship and he ODed a couple years later, by himself in a motel. I miss our conversations. I miss the adventures. Now, this life is but an addiction I can’t escape, although I’ve tried (had a different user name for years before my divorce 11 years ago.) For all its annoyances, we know what they are, this site is a savior for many of us that would otherwise be locked up in our own heads.
Well to clarify the post.....I do not come out and say I monger. I joke about casual sex, no nsa sex. pay for play sex, sugar baby sex all said in jest. It segways to additional comments and questions. Also I leave deniabity and no proof. Women ask how the sugar baby scene works, wondering if it would work for them ( asking if I think they are attractive enough to be paid for sex) lol
Then comes the loose lips from drinking and guys showing pics from their phones. So after a few outings with same people and a few more additional people really personal things come up and ALOT of inappropriate talk of sex. So time is money also. Just because I don't pay a woman directly for sex I still invest in gifts, emotions, time, talking etc. Its still mongering because money is exchanged somewhat. I do/ have/ will direct pay. Those women I trade info with as stated above.
Hope that is a clear answer.
Then comes the loose lips from drinking and guys showing pics from their phones. So after a few outings with same people and a few more additional people really personal things come up and ALOT of inappropriate talk of sex. So time is money also. Just because I don't pay a woman directly for sex I still invest in gifts, emotions, time, talking etc. Its still mongering because money is exchanged somewhat. I do/ have/ will direct pay. Those women I trade info with as stated above.
Hope that is a clear answer.
Many Many decades ago I was invited into this arena by two friends, these two were always hitting the strip clubs LATE NIGHT after I went home or when the night was a little quiet. They developed a taste for the strippers and would talk about probably half of the shenanigans that were going on. I started going with them to the clubs on the island and too developed a taste for the taboo that was strip clubs/take out, so forth.
That of course wasn't enough and my guys started calling the "Stripper Ads" in local newspapers and magazines and had these ladies over their houses. I would partake and often would marvel at how callous they could be, not that they treated these women bad, not at all, just how easy it was to them. It was like ordering a pizza late night. The pussy showed up at the door and it was time to eat. I had to go away for a few years to a not so nice place and when I came back it was as if I never left.....
The taste had grown and instead of it being a once a week treat, it become literally almost every time we went out. If we weren't getting any civilian ladies to come back to the houses, we moved over to the strip clubs. There we would ball out in the VIP room, get them to come back to our houses and we partied all night and into the morning. I woke up countless times with women, sometimes 2, naked next to me and I had no idea what had transpired the night before. Hoping and praying I didn't give myself aids or some other incurable scourge on my cock, for being too brass and intoxicated to strap up. This went on for years, until my buddy forgot to erase his answering machine one night when his SO was away. On the machine was a message from the escort service we called announcing "The Girls Are Here!" - Before anyone says NINE, you dumb why give your home number?! It was way before cell phones.
After that debacle my one friend was like "we should try these massage places". Here rented to some of these spots and would get serviced by the girls for being the landlord. We would cruise the Island looking for places to try and each go in one at a time. We all tried to outdo each other in terms of the level of service we could get. I stayed in the AMP scene mainly while they dabbled in both.
We don't speak of it much now when we are together, but the unwritten rule amongst us was, NEVER EVER discuss this with the other guys in the group, they were a little more mainstream and had loose lips. This board has helped me tremendously in that it is a natural outlet, unlike my glory days when I could do this with friends and talk of it. Times done changed, dudes got babies, families, daughters going into college. One guy we rolled with and mongered with, found out his daughter was on SA. That is some reap what you sow kind of shit.
The life of mongering is as secret as you want to keep it. In my travels in life, keep your dirt to yourself unless you want to get swept up and into any drama.
That of course wasn't enough and my guys started calling the "Stripper Ads" in local newspapers and magazines and had these ladies over their houses. I would partake and often would marvel at how callous they could be, not that they treated these women bad, not at all, just how easy it was to them. It was like ordering a pizza late night. The pussy showed up at the door and it was time to eat. I had to go away for a few years to a not so nice place and when I came back it was as if I never left.....
The taste had grown and instead of it being a once a week treat, it become literally almost every time we went out. If we weren't getting any civilian ladies to come back to the houses, we moved over to the strip clubs. There we would ball out in the VIP room, get them to come back to our houses and we partied all night and into the morning. I woke up countless times with women, sometimes 2, naked next to me and I had no idea what had transpired the night before. Hoping and praying I didn't give myself aids or some other incurable scourge on my cock, for being too brass and intoxicated to strap up. This went on for years, until my buddy forgot to erase his answering machine one night when his SO was away. On the machine was a message from the escort service we called announcing "The Girls Are Here!" - Before anyone says NINE, you dumb why give your home number?! It was way before cell phones.
After that debacle my one friend was like "we should try these massage places". Here rented to some of these spots and would get serviced by the girls for being the landlord. We would cruise the Island looking for places to try and each go in one at a time. We all tried to outdo each other in terms of the level of service we could get. I stayed in the AMP scene mainly while they dabbled in both.
We don't speak of it much now when we are together, but the unwritten rule amongst us was, NEVER EVER discuss this with the other guys in the group, they were a little more mainstream and had loose lips. This board has helped me tremendously in that it is a natural outlet, unlike my glory days when I could do this with friends and talk of it. Times done changed, dudes got babies, families, daughters going into college. One guy we rolled with and mongered with, found out his daughter was on SA. That is some reap what you sow kind of shit.
The life of mongering is as secret as you want to keep it. In my travels in life, keep your dirt to yourself unless you want to get swept up and into any drama.
I blurred my normal private and discreet lives two times. Usually, I just set aside a few bucks to enjoy myself without it impacting my normal schedule or life. I dated an AMP store owner for a year (lied to normal peeps in life that she worked in private equity) and recently had sex with a young russian chick who works out in North Babylon after her shift at her workplace a few hours after I saw her for a 160 HH RT. She didn't want to be alone that night and I wanted action. Meet at local hotel. She thanked me for my service in the morning.
I commend you for your morals 
I recently found out a guy I used to work with has a daughter ( estranged) who is a pro. Although he did not talk about her in much detail ( can you blame him), a third party, his good friend, provided me details..
I was busting.. I could not tip my hand but hey, would have loved to get a taste
I recently found out a guy I used to work with has a daughter ( estranged) who is a pro. Although he did not talk about her in much detail ( can you blame him), a third party, his good friend, provided me details..
I was busting.. I could not tip my hand but hey, would have loved to get a taste
Well-said. I agree. It is very therapeutic to be able to express openly in a safe space, where we would be otherwise crucified. To be "locked up in your own head," is really a very claustrophobic place to be, and your time of guilt and fear-ridden incarceration there is probably much longer when compared to fully expressing those feelings and desires, and being able to move on with life.
interesting thread guys, and yes feels good to know how many of us are into this hobby. I used to have a lot of friends, slowly starting going their way so now I have a small circle but they are all very conservative. I like adventures and since I’m young making pretty good money to support the hobby, it has turn into something I wish I could share with my friends but I know they will see me differently, not to mentioned their girlfriends and other female friends. i enjoyed every new experience Ive encountered, specially the ones I know for sure I would never have with a Gf. Mind blowing will never forget when I decided to pull the trigger my first time lmao.
