I’ve joined SA 5+ years ago and been with probably 70+ girls. My success score is roughly 9/10 on a first meet. For most, this might seem relatively high and wanted to share my experience in hope to help others. This forum has tremendous amount of useful info and helped me a lot. I prefer to build up natural feel and organic connection first instead of things to be too transactional.
Establishing connection and sense of a ‘normal guy’ is key. Every single girl keep repeating to me there are so many weirdos asking for weird requests for crazy $. Just by speaking normally and having normal conversation, it can get you to a great start.
Don’t get sidetracked or fooled by girl’s story no matter how real, desperate or pity it sounds – they lie 99% of the time. They are there for one reason only - $.
Don’t make mistake and give your actual number. Only use texting apps for communication. I usually move convo to texting after few messages on site. real number can expose your identity easily. Some can use it to blackmail you, don’t give them a chance.
Don’t be a walking ATM. Many girls expect getting $ for no work. Set a tone of conversation and align expectations. Otherwise she’ll have upper hand on making decisions of YOUR wallet.
Hotels only. I always look up hotels in the area via apps right before meet to see where we can go. Never bring a girl to your place. Girls look for vulnerabilities of guys. You wouldn’t want a stranger knowing where you live in case something does not go according to plan down the line.
Many do raw. it’s usually lack of education to girls, mostly acceptable by younger ones. If girl is on birth control, she’s most likely taking it raw, if not with you, with others. I had many opportunities I did not partake. I’d stay away as some girls got big rotation - double digit number of guys they see a week.
I’ve had my share of crazy experiences too from seeing 21yo Colombian hottie I later found out she was married, to having some virgins, yes virgins, and wanted to lose their virginity…
Stay safe fellas!