At that point I agreed to give her the money and she just ghosted.
I never understood this part. These are not chaste women who only fuck a SO, so why expose themselves to possible violence, stalking, all sorts of unwanted behavior from clients, when the alternative could be a steady money stream? It's not physical merchandise like jewelry or drugs that they can only sell once. It's fucking, they can sell it here, and then sell it again there. All to happy customers.
Anyway, in the changed behavior department, at the end of winter I had a run of the mill good session with a decently cute, decently young, decently sane SB , who is from out of town but not far away. Periodically she popped up to say "I'm coming back to town" and we 'd try to align our schedules. After a few false starts we set a date. The morning of, she tells me "I'm moving to a different hotel, change to Brooklyn OK?" and I'm wondering how she's going to check in before 3PM when we're supposed to meet at 2PM. Then she asks me if I can front her the hotel $ since I'm "so good with hotels". In my mind I immediately decided to make alternative plans with someone else. But, since I had fucked her once already, I did ask her "which hotel?". She replied "I don't know. Can you find one?"
She still pops up every so often, & I still respond, because as long as she shows up in the lobby before I check in to a dayuse, I'd be happy to fuck her again for her price.