Hey Al, you sound like an old fool; "many Asian women like SOME western men". Thats what most ugly white men say about Asian women. The truth of the matter is most asian women do not like western men (I know asian woman investment bankers, lawyers, nurses, cashiers, students, secretaries, whores; 9 out of 10 find anglos tacky and ugly (that's why they cant get into many of these houese. The #'s are worse for indians [i have not found 1 chinese girl who said they would date an indian, maybe 3 out of 100 would date a black]).
I am chinese and am in an interracial marriage with someone who draws alot of attention (because she is on TV alot); when I walk with my wife, chinese women stare; especially the ones with anglos, who are almost all of the time butt ass ugly. What I dont understand though is how some of these fine ass chinese girls are with these nasty super skinny or overweight chinese guys, i dont get it.
Anyways, to get back to the point, I think the thing is everyone is looking for something. If you can provide it, your in. In your case it may be someone who doesnt abuse her, and someone who spends time with her and treats her kind (which i commend you for). In most other cases if you can provide for her, your in. But its not wise in this day and age to overgeneralize, especially when you dont know what you are talking about.
This is not directed at you per se.
Me and my wife are now older, but wife was hot in the day and have the pictures to prove it. I am white and she is Chinese. I have an attractive what has become almost like a mistress situation (people on this board and other board have posted as such). No biggie.
It is a state of mind how to get them.
What both have told me, is that some chinese guys are simply boring. Not all. Enough.
Saturday, after concluding anal sex (something her husband or any man has ever done), her husband happens to call us while napping. She engages in small talk and continues to caress me while talking to him. She has no respect for him. She isnt even married one year. She was lazy and never loved him but was too lazy to look for someone else new. This became available because her husband rarely lasts more than ten minutes during sex and is only about 4-5 inches. She says she cannot feel him.
Some, not all, treat their women like shit. I was out late in little Korea the other night with a bunch of mongers from this board and some others. A friend sent a bottle of liquor to the next table full of Korean guys with hot young girl friends. They reciprocated later in the night and a good bunch of them came to our table. AFter a time, one of my friends said, "maybe you should not be ignoring your girlfriends all night". Their answer, "Fuck that!, we will get new ones tomorrow" in front of them. We were held in higher regard than these hot women. They were so hot, that guys on this very board would gladly pay $500/hr for them.
You think when these guys get married, they are going to treat their wives better?
On yes, this give us white guys and opportunity like you have no idea.
There is no doubt that some chinese women only like chinese guys. But like it was said before, it is a mixed bag with varying tastes out there. The nimble guy knows how to read the signs and pounce on the opportunity when it presents itself.
BTW, I have a lot of Chinese friends. It is because of what I do and have business in asia. We laugh about all this stuff all the time.