Monger Regrets- ( I've had a few)
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Regrets—
Recent trip to LV
Pretty methodical planning ahead, securing appointments- Never like to wing it ..Had my eye on a gal named Rachael- good reviews, established pro.. excited
We get to the room, she unmasks ( need masks indoors in LV).. looks vaguely familiar. .. take care of donation and I realize I saw her a few years back- ymmv, but we did not click and I did not enjoy myself.. I did not have it in me to ask for a part of the donation back and ask her to leave..I let her give me a massage, half assed BJ.. and hj completion
guess my memory is not what it used to be..
Recent trip to LV
Pretty methodical planning ahead, securing appointments- Never like to wing it ..Had my eye on a gal named Rachael- good reviews, established pro.. excited
We get to the room, she unmasks ( need masks indoors in LV).. looks vaguely familiar. .. take care of donation and I realize I saw her a few years back- ymmv, but we did not click and I did not enjoy myself.. I did not have it in me to ask for a part of the donation back and ask her to leave..I let her give me a massage, half assed BJ.. and hj completion
guess my memory is not what it used to be..
Talk about vaguely familiar…
There was a girl I saw multiple times over the years. She went under a few names. Bella, Nicole and Samantha. Tall huge breasted Italian girl. Very very good looking.
She would change her appearance and name over the years. Blonde Bimbo to Dark Haired Goth, to More Natural looking and more tanned. I wouldn’t recognize her until I saw her pussy lips. She had the cutest pussy ever. Her lips curled up and looked like a rose bud.
Anyways… So every time I saw her, she looked familiar. And then when I was about to stick my cock in her, I’d recognize her from her pussy lips. And I’d say “Bella!!”.
She was great in bed. She used to do the 2 pops for 200 back in the day. It’s been 11-12 years since I last saw her. I will never forget those pussy lips.
There was a girl I saw multiple times over the years. She went under a few names. Bella, Nicole and Samantha. Tall huge breasted Italian girl. Very very good looking.
She would change her appearance and name over the years. Blonde Bimbo to Dark Haired Goth, to More Natural looking and more tanned. I wouldn’t recognize her until I saw her pussy lips. She had the cutest pussy ever. Her lips curled up and looked like a rose bud.
Anyways… So every time I saw her, she looked familiar. And then when I was about to stick my cock in her, I’d recognize her from her pussy lips. And I’d say “Bella!!”.
She was great in bed. She used to do the 2 pops for 200 back in the day. It’s been 11-12 years since I last saw her. I will never forget those pussy lips.
Zero regrets. Well maybe the only regret is that I didn't discover mongering a few years earlier. I just turned 50 so you are a few years ahead of me but I am living the same life as you. Love my wife of +20 years, good mother to my children but its truth that our sex life flatlined once the kids came. Mongering unequivocally saved my marriage. For me, cheating is if I get involved with someone emotionally other than my SO. Most men and women just have different physical and emotional needs as we get older. If I didn't discover mongering in my late 30s, I have no doubt that I would've entered into extra-marital relationships with civie women just to get my physical urges satisfied. Those usually don't end well looking at my own friends and things written here on UG. On the other hand, the emotional support and intellectual bonding with my SO has gotten stronger as we grew older together. Honestly, sex with a huge variety of women is great but so is having someone to come home to and I want both. Maybe I am rationalizing and/or just selfish. But I am still in good physical shape and well off financially to the point that I can afford to monger regularly (1-2x weekly) and care for my family at the same time, so why not have the best of both worlds?
A couple
1) Not looking into AMP earlier in my hobby career
2) Not being more assertive first couple of years of my hobby on what services I want. I needed to have higher expectations on what I should get for my money.
3) I over prioritized number of shots over quality of overall experience for many years.
1) Not looking into AMP earlier in my hobby career
2) Not being more assertive first couple of years of my hobby on what services I want. I needed to have higher expectations on what I should get for my money.
3) I over prioritized number of shots over quality of overall experience for many years.
I’ve had regrets booking a half when I should’ve done qv with a provider upon first session, especially considering the one pop norm for that time limit. I now treat it like a sample or appetiser to avoid getting an overpriced and terribly bland main course on my first visit full of disappointment, if the analogy makes sense. Nothing puts me on the spot more than the terrible line “are you almost done”, opposed to the nicer “you gonna cum for me”.
I’ve had few providers that aren’t worth mentioning/ were only advertising for a short while, whether travelling women or brief semi pro providers like this type. Whether they seemed “under proper instruction”, or other factors who just left me unfulfilled even after one pop. There’s a post somewhere on this site about mutual energy exchange and I get that. Some of my favorite providers with a bubbly personality or just sweet demeanour made my week; as opposed to the ones I’m mentioning, who made me want another provider to have a better time before I go home.
sometimes you can just tell before you hook the time, location and price amount if it’s gonna be a cold, strictly business appointment that’s overpriced.
Don’t get me wrong sometimes the half hour was the best choice, such as an incredible session full of edging and position changes, with lovely chat before and after the deed, or even a somewhat fast insanely good service…. I treat it like an unintentional qv while the hhr pay is as good as a fat tip($).
I’ve had few providers that aren’t worth mentioning/ were only advertising for a short while, whether travelling women or brief semi pro providers like this type. Whether they seemed “under proper instruction”, or other factors who just left me unfulfilled even after one pop. There’s a post somewhere on this site about mutual energy exchange and I get that. Some of my favorite providers with a bubbly personality or just sweet demeanour made my week; as opposed to the ones I’m mentioning, who made me want another provider to have a better time before I go home.
sometimes you can just tell before you hook the time, location and price amount if it’s gonna be a cold, strictly business appointment that’s overpriced.
Don’t get me wrong sometimes the half hour was the best choice, such as an incredible session full of edging and position changes, with lovely chat before and after the deed, or even a somewhat fast insanely good service…. I treat it like an unintentional qv while the hhr pay is as good as a fat tip($).
For me
1. Not taking advantage of/seeing more often those SB I liked. The hit and run mentality caused burnt bridges.
2. Not being more selective about following through with AMPs with disappointing providers. Little head must be vetoed at times.
3. Just generally being too cautious and letting opportunities slip away.
1. Not taking advantage of/seeing more often those SB I liked. The hit and run mentality caused burnt bridges.
2. Not being more selective about following through with AMPs with disappointing providers. Little head must be vetoed at times.
3. Just generally being too cautious and letting opportunities slip away.