Looks - expectations vs. reality
- Thread starter Slinky Bender
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Over time, both in the hobby and life in general, little by little through experience, you learn to expect the worst--in every person, in every encounter, situation and scenario. The upside of this slow and grim realization is that you are never dis-appointed. When you always expect the worst, you can only be pleasantly surprised, gratified, and momentarily happy to be alive again, when a person or situation actually turns out to be wonderful or positive. Fortuneately this doesn't happen too often, so we are spared the non-plussed speechlessness that can ensue when our low expectations are stood on their head. Nothing more wonderful than being astonished like that. But it's a gift we are all capable of giving--simply walk around being nice to people. They may not show it, but believe me, they will be astonished, and may even pass it on.
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I don't know why but I always get my hopes up from the description and am usually very dissappointed. Only 1 time, several years ago was I happily surprised by the looks of the girl, she was drop dead gorgeous and a 10 most guys scales, but all I got out of her was a hj. I paid $250 for the hour and she was there for 15 minutes. I call the agency while she is still there and complain, they tell her to stay. She stays for another 45 minutes watching TV. She offered nothing more. I offered her a decent tip for more and she ignored me. I have to stop getting my hopes up. I've never had truly great service from someone who's really hot.