Licking pussy

#27
So this post has made me realize how much I miss DATY. The last time I did it was over a month ago. When the providers return would it be crazy to book 4 or 5 in a day and go from one to the other and treat it like a buffet? :)
 
#29
Back in my youth I discovered that I really liked DATY and was pretty good at it. I had discussions with many SO to discover what they liked and didn't like. With a lot of practice I got really good. Billy is correct. All women are different. With a SO you can always ask what they like and hopefully they will be honest. Some women are very shy about that and might not tell you.

A provider is a tougher nut to crack. After all their job is to make sure you have a good time and even if you're terrible they will tell you how great you were. Some are very good at faking an orgasms. Again it's their job to make you feel good about yourself.

Over the years I developed tells that I look for. Things you don't see in pornos. A slight change in breathing, a slight quiver in the thigh muscle (not the leg shake), the hips move in the direction they want your tongue. I keep changing my technique until I hit the combination to cause all that, then I know I find what she likes. Even with all that I am sure some providers faked it.

I was with a provider I had been seeing for a couple of weeks. I was never sure if she came or not. Many of the tells weren't there, but she did a decent job of faking it. Then one time in the middle of DATY she stopped me. She said she wanted to tell me what she liked. She liked just the tip of the tongue on her clit. So I focused on what she told me. Took a bit to get the rhythm, but then I could tell she was enjoying it. This time the orgasm was real, and was different then the previous ones.

There is no one technique that works on all women. And I have had a couple of SO that just didn't like it at all. I have also found that someone women are very self conscious about their pussy. Does it look OK, smell OK, taste OK? With all that in their heads it is difficult for them to relax enough to really enjoy. From my experience it usually takes a few times to find what they really like and for them to relax enough to enjoy.
Just want to let you know you were the closest to accurate. This girl in particular likes the tongue tip lightly on the clit like tickle then harder pressing and grinding with the tongue. Moved up on her side, sucked one nipple with my arm underneath pinching and carressing her other nipple, whole time one finger massaging her wet clit. Popped that lock lol (sophia) and had a blast. Trying fingers in her pussy while licking was a distraction she didnt particularly like so....just figured i would report back! Thanks everyone! Btw. Sophia i was that guy who texted you a couple months ago and i said i want an appt "now" because usually providers say do not call til ready....anyhoo your response was great and gave an alternate same day bout 4 hrs later. Just wanted to let you know i wasnt being disrespectful just a little naive lol. You probs get alot of those calls so im sure you cant pinpoint or remember...Couldnt make it but you are first on the list should i want! Your personality is def a plus!!!
 
#33
In my early years, in my ignorance, and being unread, unschooled and just being aware of my own body, thoughts and emotions and ignorant of everything else, I thought that a woman was there to just take care of my dick and somehow she would get her share of pleasure in due course along in the process.

And my girlfriend did just that, she took care of me night and day until one day I got the firm hand on my head and a strong push to her vagina. I was like "no fucking way." But she gave me that stern look which only meant "get to it."

It was a shock and a wake up call. The first minute was scary, confused and like "what do you do with this slimy mess? I mean, this is for my dick to pound!!! This is not for my face to get involved in. My tongue belongs in her mouth and my dick belongs in her pussy. This is inherently wrong, ass-backwards!!!"

But I had to start it and after about five minutes, I got the hang of it. Next thing I knew, my horny girlfriend was fucking my face, my nose, lips, tongue, forehead, chin and I was like OMG, I didn't know that a female had this kind of drive, being brought up in a male chauvinist society. I actually thought that sexual pleasure was in the domain of the male and she was just basically a sex object.

It opened up a whole new world of giving her pleasure and enjoying her excitement. But, like smoking your first cigarette and gagging and taking your first swig of scotch and having it burn your throat, licking pussy for me was an acquired taste. But once acquiring it, it certainly became addictive.
 

Sophia Belle

Trickle Down Economist
#34
In my early years, in my ignorance, and being unread, unschooled and just being aware of my own body, thoughts and emotions and ignorant of everything else, I thought that a woman was there to just take care of my dick and somehow she would get her share of pleasure in due course along in the process.

And my girlfriend did just that, she took care of me night and day until one day I got the firm hand on my head and a strong push to her vagina. I was like "no fucking way." But she gave me that stern look which only meant "get to it."

It was a shock and a wake up call. The first minute was scary, confused and like "what do you do with this slimy mess? I mean, this is for my dick to pound!!! This is not for my face to get involved in. My tongue belongs in her mouth and my dick belongs in her pussy. This is inherently wrong, ass-backwards!!!"

But I had to start it and after about five minutes, I got the hang of it. Next thing I knew, my horny girlfriend was fucking my face, my nose, lips, tongue, forehead, chin and I was like OMG, I didn't know that a female had this kind of drive, being brought up in a male chauvinist society. I actually thought that sexual pleasure was in the domain of the male and she was just basically a sex object.

It opened up a whole new world of giving her pleasure and enjoying her excitement. But, like smoking your first cigarette and gagging and taking your first swig of scotch and having it burn your throat, licking pussy for me was an acquired taste. But once acquiring it, it certainly became addictive.
my favorite post by you yet!!
 
#36
Actually his initial instinct was the correct one. Women were were created to service men's every sexual need. ( includes rimming)
If they themselves get off its merely incidental ..
Thank you, Pokler.

I should have trusted my intuition. I guess I just panicked, and caved.
 
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