If you could give just one piece of advice to a newbie, what would it be?

An addendum to @thezoos's #2 (which I agree with): if the rate is negotiable, separate your cash on hand as much as possible -- or even better, don't carry more cash than you're willing to spend incl. tip). Makes it easier to draw hard lines if there isn't easily visible/accessible extra cash to pay with, whether she tries to play hardball on the upsell or you start thinking with the right head.
This is a good one and should be added to my #2 imho
 
But if you can do it again would you have abstained from mongering if it meant your illness could have been avoided ?
That’s an excellent question @pokler which I don’t think I could simply answer yes or no too …

My first thought is yes, of course, but being the what if type, with abstinence, there would always be the uncertainty of stepping off the curb and getting hit by a bus I suppose..

Past and current events in life have led me to become quite humble, compassionate and most importantly jidgement free
 
But if you can do it again would you have abstained from mongering if it meant your illness could have been avoided ?
USER] which I don’t think I could simply answer yes or no too …

My first thought is yes, of course, but being the what if type, with abstinence, there would always be the uncertainty of stepping off the curb and getting hit by a bus I suppose..

Past and current events in life have led me to become quite humble, compassionate and most importantly jidgement free.. One does not know what’s going on ,behind closed doors or on the other side of the desk- Waking up every day not knowing what’s tomorrow will bring and goi g from scan to scan is something I wish on no one either..

My S/O has been outstanding doing everything she can to stand by my side and help me through this - Difficult to explain in a few short words .. Then I think about the guilt I would have if she knew of past mongering transgressions—

to be continued Sir
 

U_N_I_2nite

Reformed offender
You can date a provider, give her gifts, have the best sex ever and sweet moments but the next day one of us is embracing her tightly as we release into her vagina or mouth.
That comment reminded me of an ex-fiancé about 10 years ago.
Fucken hit a nerve!
She worked at a hospital on Long Island and sent sexually texts to a guy that worked there. I found out by looking through her phone.
@Bxboy69 this was needed for all of us, thank u.
 
And then what?
Did I miss something here

I saved money, invested wisely, traveled a lot, tried to stay healthy, but ended up getting sick and now reflect back wishing I coulda had just one more unforgettable session ..
YOLO
Everyone is different obviously, but as time went by I've learned alot, the $$ I wasted on this vice I could of brought more of my dream cars and so on but that's just me, I get more pleasure from hearing a 800hp screaming down the road then some chic faking a orgasm.. and at the age I'm at thankfully I can still pull college bitches but that's also because I bust my ass alot in the gym ,now just imagine if I had that mentality back then I would of been a top G like tate lol. My point is this game "hobby" is an addictive vice like many others so best is just to try and stay away bit if pussy happens to come along your way naturally then why not.
 
Everyone is different obviously, but as time went by I've learned alot, the $$ I wasted on this vice I could of brought more of my dream cars and so on but that's just me, I get more pleasure from hearing a 800hp screaming down the road then some chic faking a orgasm.. and at the age I'm at thankfully I can still pull college bitches but that's also because I bust my ass alot in the gym ,now just imagine if I had that mentality back then I would of been a top G like tate lol. My point is this game "hobby" is an addictive vice like many others so best is just to try and stay away bit if pussy happens to come along your way naturally then why not.
Fair enough— I suppose if one is disciplined enough, why can’t they have both -
Never thought to deeply about second guessing the $$$$ I have spent over the years vs denying myself something
 
Everyone is different obviously, but as time went by I've learned alot, the $$ I wasted on this vice I could of brought more of my dream cars and so on but that's just me, I get more pleasure from hearing a 800hp screaming down the road then some chic faking a orgasm.. and at the age I'm at thankfully I can still pull college bitches but that's also because I bust my ass alot in the gym ,now just imagine if I had that mentality back then I would of been a top G like tate lol. My point is this game "hobby" is an addictive vice like many others so best is just to try and stay away bit if pussy happens to come along your way naturally then why not.
You can rent exotic cars on Long Island.
 
Everyone is different obviously, but as time went by I've learned alot, the $$ I wasted on this vice I could of brought more of my dream cars and so on but that's just me, I get more pleasure from hearing a 800hp screaming down the road then some chic faking a orgasm.. and at the age I'm at thankfully I can still pull college bitches but that's also because I bust my ass alot in the gym ,now just imagine if I had that mentality back then I would of been a top G like tate lol. My point is this game "hobby" is an addictive vice like many others so best is just to try and stay away bit if pussy happens to come along your way naturally then why not.
Cloud 9 Exotics in Farmingdale it’s near the hotels so you can kill two birds of one stone
 

U_N_I_2nite

Reformed offender
After you finish grunting and letting the poison out into the condom, make sure you take the condom with you.
At the end of the day, it is your DNA. You can discard on your own.
 
After you finish grunting and letting the poison out into the condom, make sure you take the condom with you.
At the end of the day, it is your DNA. You can discard on your own.
In this vein - clean up after yourself as much as possible.
Have some spare condoms and even your own wipes.

May come in handy especially with non-pros.
 
After you finish grunting and letting the poison out into the condom, make sure you take the condom with you.
At the end of the day, it is your DNA. You can discard on your own.
This.
In the last two years, I have had three different providers tell me they got knocked up by a John and had the baby.
Many of you will think you get away with it but at the same time you’re giving all your DNA away to these websites to find out your heritage or whatever the fuck else - and down the line you’ll have a hooker come back looking for child support
 
This.
In the last two years, I have had three different providers tell me they got knocked up by a John and had the baby.
Many of you will think you get away with it but at the same time you’re giving all your DNA away to these websites to find out your heritage or whatever the fuck else - and down the line you’ll have a hooker come back looking for child support
One would think a provider would take precautions for this reason- As one gets older and wiser , Never ASSume anything
 

U_N_I_2nite

Reformed offender
This.
In the last two years, I have had three different providers tell me they got knocked up by a John and had the baby.
Many of you will think you get away with it but at the same time you’re giving all your DNA away to these websites to find out your heritage or whatever the fuck else - and down the line you’ll have a hooker come back looking for child support
That is scary. I wrap it up because I don’t trust these Hoes.
I have pillow talked some of the ladies, got them gifts, tell them that they are pretty…. Blah blah blah.
I’m not fucking raw and I will not send money digitally, or invite them into my home.

Another advice is
  • use protection no matter how pretty she is, or how pretty that pussy is.
  • Don’t share too much personal information about you
  • Don’t invite them to your home
 
In no particular order:

1) Most pics are inaccurate at best. A few I have met are real. But a very small percentage. While I fully understand blurred or altered faces, completely misleading photos only add to disappointed customers, bad reviews, and less repeat business. (That's a tip for providers/agencies).

2) Don't send deposits. There are MORE THAN ENOUGH legit providers who don't require one.

3) Don't blow up spots by being obvious or conspicuous. Also don't pester providers. If you don't get an answer just try another time. It may be frustrating but the other way will not likely get a positive result.

4) Be clean and decent to providers. 3 & 4 help all of us, as well as just being a courteous human being. I can't speak for anyone but myself. I'm no looker. The least I can do is not be smelly or ungroomed.

5) Read and research sites like this. Sift out bs and shills. Also post honest reviews for the next person.

Hope these are tips the board agrees with.
 
Just echoing what everyone else is saying - my 2 cents.

Not every session is going to be porn star quality.
It happens once and a while but there are going to be
days when the girl is just grumpy. It's not you.

Have some flexibility but don't let a provider take advantage of you
or pull sketch moves on you either.

Always try to have a positive attitude and treat the provider with respect.
She may be a ho that just sucked every drop out of you but they still are people.
 
Just echoing what everyone else is saying - my 2 cents.

Not every session is going to be porn star quality.
It happens once and a while but there are going to be
days when the girl is just grumpy. It's not you.

Have some flexibility but don't let a provider take advantage of you
or pull sketch moves on you either.

Always try to have a positive attitude and treat the provider with respect.
She may be a ho that just sucked every drop out of you but they still are people.

Also, the more you respect the provider, the better the provider is going to like you and chances are, the better the service will be
 
This.
In the last two years, I have had three different providers tell me they got knocked up by a John and had the baby.
Many of you will think you get away with it but at the same time you’re giving all your DNA away to these websites to find out your heritage or whatever the fuck else - and down the line you’ll have a hooker come back looking for child support
Were any of them Asian?
 
Another advice is
  • use protection no matter how pretty she is, or how pretty that pussy is.
  • Don’t share too much personal information about you
  • Don’t invite them to your home
Amen. We think alike. This is my motto for even NP4P and casual hookups with civilians. Only if we are a thing a while will they know where I live, some personal things and more in depth things of my life. Otherwise its superficial keeping her at bay and fucking her into headboards.
 
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