If you could give just one piece of advice to a newbie, what would it be?
- Thread starter PerryWhite
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Great advice @scrubtites
To add to that. If it’s an hotel, make sure the lady locks the door. Always be ready to leave ( you unlock the door yourself) if you feel uncomfortable. Do the Irish goodbye = just walk the fuck away. I have definitely done that a couple of times.
To add to that. If it’s an hotel, make sure the lady locks the door. Always be ready to leave ( you unlock the door yourself) if you feel uncomfortable. Do the Irish goodbye = just walk the fuck away. I have definitely done that a couple of times.
- A man walked into the room and went straight to the bathroom (I walked out)
- The lady wasn’t my cup tea. (I walked out)
- The lady has an attitude. (I walked out)
- The lady wasn’t anything like the pictures. (I walked out)
I've walked away at least three times when the girls opened the door and she was totally gross. Never even entered the room.
I walked out (rapidly) when a dude came out of the bathroom. Luckily I had yet to undress.
In fact the woman wasn't much of a looker and all I wanted her to do was blow me while I sat in the chair and she got on her knees.
I remember hearing her say to him as I was bolting, " you weren't supposed to come out yet".
I walked out (rapidly) when a dude came out of the bathroom. Luckily I had yet to undress.
In fact the woman wasn't much of a looker and all I wanted her to do was blow me while I sat in the chair and she got on her knees.
I remember hearing her say to him as I was bolting, " you weren't supposed to come out yet".
There were about 8 times I shouldve walked out cuz the woman wasnt a looker at all but i guess i blame my lack of backbone to walk out. That and I always feared that their pimp would try to follow me or wait outside of the hotel room and/or spa. Honestly need more backbone or whatever to nope the fuck out of a situation like that. Also I dont know about yall but I have yet to encounter any man hiding in a room or anything of the sort as of yet, but i do know my luck would run out soon.
I've exchanged I love you's with more than one provider. It doesn't mean that you loose your mind. You just have to let them know that you are married or in a committed relationship so they don't have any expectations. It's led to some of the best sex of my life and I'm still in touch with several of these lovely ladies long after they have retired.
… it’s 1/1/2025 
This all the way. There are times where I know I would have been better off walking out, but I don't always have the backbone (and I also tend to want to avoid escalating a situation). But I'm learning.
But like someone else here said, the good ol' Irish exit is the way – if your gut says to walk, walk ASAP. Just be stern, as few words as possible (if necessary) that you're no longer interested. And the earlier, the better (it's also best chance of saving your money if you walk at the very start). Trying to walk when you're already naked is awkward, and you're the asshole if you try to argue about payment because post-nut clarity has you regretting the purchase.
But like someone else here said, the good ol' Irish exit is the way – if your gut says to walk, walk ASAP. Just be stern, as few words as possible (if necessary) that you're no longer interested. And the earlier, the better (it's also best chance of saving your money if you walk at the very start). Trying to walk when you're already naked is awkward, and you're the asshole if you try to argue about payment because post-nut clarity has you regretting the purchase.
The overwhelmingly majority of the times I walked I did so before I stepped in the room.
Maybe this is why a lot of them hide behind the door when opening it, so you can't see them until you walk in. Well that and so they can slam it if you scare them.
The times I've walked once inside were the times they wouldn't open or let me open the bathroom door
Maybe this is why a lot of them hide behind the door when opening it, so you can't see them until you walk in. Well that and so they can slam it if you scare them.
The times I've walked once inside were the times they wouldn't open or let me open the bathroom door
1. If they want a deposit, it's a scam
2. Take a clean crisp 50 and put it into a different place than your other money. If things get sketchy in the room just go hey you know what, here is the easiest 50 bucks you ever made. Give them the 50 and book. The sketchy situation is not likely to follow you of they just got free money and if you're in this hobby, what's 50 bucks lol.
3. Google the phone number. If you see it come up in Peoria, IL on the same day as Bohemia, NY you just found yourself a scam and saved yourself time and money.
4. The all time superstars on this board (Amanda, Angel Baby, Kaia etc) are superstars for a reason. I cannot, cannot think of a better way to get your first hobby session in than with Amanda or Angel Baby.
5. Las Vegas area code = lousy time
6. Cali area code = almost as lousy time (you have better odds of a good time with CA than LV but why bother)
7. Don't drive around with illegal shit in your car (aka don't commit two crimes at once... Someone wiser than I came up w that one).
8. If the lady suggests you clean up or take a shower, take the darn hint and do so. You will 100% have a better time with someone who isn't skeevied out by stinky ball odor.
9. If you are in a massage situation, ask the lady for unscented lotion/oil. Otherwise you gonna smell like bordello and someone is going to notice who you don't want to notice
10. On Seeking and similar sites, take your conversation to texts ASAP... you can lose your subscription if you start talking dollars and cents on their official chat.
Those are my top 10 hope they help someone
2. Take a clean crisp 50 and put it into a different place than your other money. If things get sketchy in the room just go hey you know what, here is the easiest 50 bucks you ever made. Give them the 50 and book. The sketchy situation is not likely to follow you of they just got free money and if you're in this hobby, what's 50 bucks lol.
3. Google the phone number. If you see it come up in Peoria, IL on the same day as Bohemia, NY you just found yourself a scam and saved yourself time and money.
4. The all time superstars on this board (Amanda, Angel Baby, Kaia etc) are superstars for a reason. I cannot, cannot think of a better way to get your first hobby session in than with Amanda or Angel Baby.
5. Las Vegas area code = lousy time
6. Cali area code = almost as lousy time (you have better odds of a good time with CA than LV but why bother)
7. Don't drive around with illegal shit in your car (aka don't commit two crimes at once... Someone wiser than I came up w that one).
8. If the lady suggests you clean up or take a shower, take the darn hint and do so. You will 100% have a better time with someone who isn't skeevied out by stinky ball odor.
9. If you are in a massage situation, ask the lady for unscented lotion/oil. Otherwise you gonna smell like bordello and someone is going to notice who you don't want to notice
10. On Seeking and similar sites, take your conversation to texts ASAP... you can lose your subscription if you start talking dollars and cents on their official chat.
Those are my top 10 hope they help someone
An addendum to @thezoos's #2 (which I agree with): if the rate is negotiable, separate your cash on hand as much as possible -- or even better, don't carry more cash than you're willing to spend incl. tip). Makes it easier to draw hard lines if there isn't easily visible/accessible extra cash to pay with, whether she tries to play hardball on the upsell or you start thinking with the right head.
