How much money have you spent in your life on the hobby?

#5
Anywhere from 21 dollars (corona in the 90's) to a couple of hundred. I've had the means for more but after the post nut shame is always on my mind and it's a waste of money.
 
#8
Started down the path when I created my incognito gmail/voice account May 17, 2016.

Since then I've spent about 500/ month but wasted thousands of hours searching
 
#9
500-600 different girls (lost count a while ago) X and average of 200 a session. Roughly between 100 to 125 thousand dollars. Let’s say 140,000 counting in the sugar babies and the handful of providers I’ve seen more than once.

It sounds like a lot . But I don’t regret anything. I’ve had an awesome time fulfilling every desire I’ve ever had. (Still looking for that hot midget)……
 
#12
I've spent more than I could ever count but i sure had alot of fun, many great memories and made a few really
good friends. Strip clubs and escorts were a weekly thing for years. Until recently five hundred a week
was the normal.
 
#15
Thinking back, over 40 years, I always played within my means. No regrets, financially. It was always a treat, especially after a good day or good week, money-wise, I certainly deserved it and it was excess cash.

However, there was a time in the late nineties when I became a full-blown addict, and my spending on the hobby was competing with my earnings. It was difficult to keep the withdrawals being unnoticed by my SO. So, I started dating AMP girls, which stopped the hemorrhaging of cash. But, at one point, back then, I sold some rare old gold chains, antique watches and jewelry to keep up with the unquenchable visits, sometimes twice or thrice a day. Being out of control is not a good feeling. Glad that is over.

But, overall, no big loss of capital. In no way would the amount of money spent put me in a better financial position today if I had it all back.

I go to economy girls like in Flushing, and I love poor neighborhood brothels found in other countries. They have such a homey, lived-in demeanor, and the girls are earthy, simple, real and kind. They take you into their bosom for a few bucks and they know that you have come to them for female solace and comfort, take their nominal fee, thank you, give you a hug and tell you to come back again.

They, too, have EXACTLY all the same working parts of a high-priced Las Vegas Prima Donna, without the glitz, charm and storied reputation. Upon leaving a reasonable encounter, you have enjoyed taking care of your business, with plenty of cash still in your pocket to have absolutely no remorse that you were taken for a fool. In fact, you walk away relishing in the fact that you just had a really great time, at a great bargain, money well spent, sometimes far less than buying gas for your car.
 
#18
I hate when this fucking question comes up. I don’t particularly enjoy being confronted with the addiction side of being a monger. I’ve spent, and spent, and spent. Straight out of pocket is easily $250,000. However, if the money was deposited into a simple investment account gaining an avg of 5% a year, I’d have some version of $1,000,000 today. And unless you’re mega rich, in my humble opinion, anyone saying the money wouldn’t matter is fooling themselves. We all have issues with delayed gratification which contributes to our need to monger. Ugh, my day is ruined.
 
#19
I hate when this fucking question comes up. I don’t particularly enjoy being confronted with the addiction side of being a monger. I’ve spent, and spent, and spent. Straight out of pocket is easily $250,000. However, if the money was deposited into a simple investment account gaining an avg of 5% a year, I’d have some version of $1,000,000 today. And unless you’re mega rich, in my humble opinion, anyone saying the money wouldn’t matter is fooling themselves. We all have issues with delayed gratification which contributes to our need to monger. Ugh, my day is ruined.
I hate thinking about this too. And when I do, I realize that I’ve been pretty stupid. At least 10k per year over the past 20 years…. And so much time …. Oh well - can’t change it. And every time I think about it I tell myself I’m going to stop, but here I am reading the boards again…
 
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