My original premise which I thought I'd mentioned maybe not was not as a SB but plain and simple FWB. I enjoy her company and she's obviously enjoyed mine or else why is she coming over to me and why are we standing there talking at length. Was just thinking to formalize it. I'd much rather have a more comfortable and intimate setting with her even if it's just for a quick dumb local casual ad hoc lunch or something. She knows a few things about my personal life and I so I had put my ATF SB out there mentioning to her that I had an NSA FWB. That hasn't deterred anything. And along with the organic stuff making a suggestion seemed like a next natural step. I doubt she needs an allowance she seems to have her act together pretty well, but of course, giving her gifts I would do anyway, and if I'm wrong only then would I give p4p any thought. It was just a FWB thought. We talk seem to enjoy each other's company men and women have sex so be it. Main problem now is I haven't seen her in about a month. In the meantime this is a pipe dream nothing more.